A long history between myself and current bf. On and off relationship for ten years. Now we are bothout of our marriages and able to be with each other. We chatted for a long time over xmas about getting together etc. We live seperatly and both have one child. We started to date slowly, it was all lovely, had 2 weekends away he was the perfect date. Then 2 weeks ago he decided to ask for voluntary redundancy in work. This has stressed him about as he didn't instantly get the answer he wanted. Since then he has completely withdrawn fro me. I have txt him asking how he is how is work, just got back a few words now and again. He is a stressful person and has done this before but then always bounces back. However i haven't heard from him since thursday afternoon. I have txt but nothing. Should he be seeing his GP or is it just over between us. I am so worried about him. When he split from his wife, he was also the same isolated himself, angry abusive txt messages etc then ok.