Can you please help me get over my fears- i feel like i am falling apart, why is it when my kids get ill i cant handle things, my son had this flu thing a couple of weeks ago and now come down with the same symptoms and i am now thinking he has something wrong with him, am i the only one who always thinks bad thoughts and has this feeling of not doing enough when i know i am doing all i can for my children, i hate feeling like this i cant eat or sleep and feel guilty for always thinking the worst, my kids seem to get everything going and look at those around me whos children get nothing- surely its cause i am a failure at being a mum and i am letting my children down, i feel so low i work hard at being a good mum but i must be doing something wrong for them to get ill- please someone tell me i am not the worst mum i love my kids so so much but feel like i am losing the plot.