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Feel like I am living in a daze... Does anyone know what I mean?

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Paranoid1stTimer · 24/09/2010 19:47

I have anxiety and have suffered from mild depression for many years now. I only managed to seek professional help over the past year since becoming a mum.

Anyway, I have not been taking medication and had "talk therapy" that really only pointed out that the only person they think can help me is myself. I am on a waiting list for CBT but have no idea how long this will take. Due to lack of resourcing on NHS I had my therapy appts 2-3 months apart so it was useful but infrequent.

Sorry to waffle on but I really feel like life is zipping past. LO is 2 1/2 now and I am SAHM. I am just realising that I seem to live in my own little bubble in a foggy head and some days go past and I don't really know what we have done. It's not that we don't do anything - we do. Lots. I just get to the end of the week and it is all a hazy blur. I feel like I live inside my head all the time and come out of the fogginess occasionally and actually take in my surroundings and think "Right - this is REAL now" so I will look at LO having his nap and try to live in the moment but then a few minutes later I am back in the foggy dazey head again.

Does any of this make any sense at all? I can't explain it in RL to anyone. GP and therapist didn't really seem to get what I meant and just thought it would pass with the symptoms of anxiety but it hasn't.

Thanks for ANY responses. I really appreciate it.

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Summatontoast · 24/09/2010 22:59

Yes I understand what you mean, have felt very similar myself. Detachment/foggy head is very common when suffering from depression or anxiety (googled it sometime ago). Agree trying your GP again, or a different GP if poss.

mspbrittle · 27/09/2010 15:43

I used to be very much like that - citalopram has helped immensely - suspect may need to increase my dose again now though...

the feeling of moments of clarity - moments of "this is REAL" is very familiar to how I was without the ADs

good luck, get a decent GP who knows what you are on about, mine has been utterly fantastic and I shudder to think where I'd have been without her

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