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getting completely preoccupied and paranoid over well being of dcs

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minxofmancunia · 23/07/2010 22:29

Have been getting more and more anxious about my dcs in particular dd (2.10) being snatched whilst we're out. She's not the type to wander off and she's pretty good but I spend the whole time we're in a shop or the park fretting that someone will take her. All the stuff in the news about John venables has sent me into overdrive . Feel sisk at the thought that he was living in Cheshire so could have been just a few miles away. Irrational i know, just so stupidly worried.

Alsi have terrible insomnia at mo due to repeatedly getting up in the night to check on ds (10m) to make sure he's still breathing. Only seem to be able to sleep in the day sometimes when I know both of them are out in the garden with dh. Dd is having a weekend in Blackpool with her Grandma and I'm in knots about it.

I really really don't want to be a helicopter as I fundamentally don't think that kind of parenting is healthy. This anxiety just seems to be getting worse and worse. I'm terrified . Tell me I'm being stupid.

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funnysinthegarden · 23/07/2010 22:32

You are being stupid

But, perhaps you do need some sort of proper (professional) help.

Nothing is going to happen to your children you know. Has anything happened to make you feel like this?

minxofmancunia · 23/07/2010 22:38

I've always been mega anxious a natural born worrier but I'm prob quite laissez faire re parenting compared to most! It has been progressively worse since birth of ds so maybe to do with being post natal and getting quite worked up about going back to work in 7 weeks and him going into nursery 3 days a week.

Would really rather look after him myself

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