Recently theres been a lot of debate on here about losing lots of weight and not ?..
This is not meant to be patronising - I know it does seem so a bit , but I cant think of better words to write what I want to say so please don?t take it to be. It?s just my take on this way of eating WOE and people?s possible expectations
Lets face it, a lot (probably most of us) are doing this because we want to lose weight, possibly lots of weight. That includes me..
But I?m fortunate enough to be hopefully near the end of my weight loss journey, having been at it for some years and lost 3 stone over all . I?m Post menopausal, and today 10.12 for my 5'5 frame. So I do understand what its like to want to lose weight and lose it fast, and I do understand the desire to be ?really slim? for once in my life....I REALLY DO .
But I agree with those above who have pointed out that this fasting business is a DIFFERENT WOE and should be seen as such, and not just a tool for weight lose (as Dr Mosley and colleagues pointed out, weight loss is a welcome but possibly secondary result );but for its hopefully beneficial health benefits also. .. The chance to live a bit longer, reduce potential strokes, diabetes .ETC ,
Yes, it does help us lose weight and that?s great , but in the short time these threads have been here I?ve seen a few, like me, lose 8-10lbs and who haven?t yet lost much more,
BUT they are sticking to it , because it seems to work in other ways even if the lbs don?t seen to be going . Many of us have reported definite reductions in waist and tummy size (like me). Lots of people have commented on how they have discovered that their hunger is not such a frightening thing after all, we can cope - we don?t need to stuff ourselves at the first feeling of emptiness.. and it doesn?t build as we feared it might. Plenty of us have reported having much more energy, and over and over again people have said how, amazingly, they don?t feel the need to eat everything in sight on an eating day, and also that they have eaten stuff they NEVER would on another ?diet? and not only is there no guilt , but no great weight gain either.
But yes, some of us have struggled with how it makes us feel, headaches, loss of sleep , food anxiety etc etc ..but those here who have been around a while mostly seem to have reported that these do fade.
But we also know the science is fairly unresearched on humans, and none of us are experts The scientists havent even come to a conclusion.. We have some indications that maybe it works better for men than women ( aint that always the case!). Also that if you are at ones correct BMI (which can still mean you want to lose another stone!) ,it may not be so effective for weight loss, (which is frustrating if you just do want to be rid of that last stone - like me!).
Now pardon me for maybe being really patronising here..and let me assure you I do not mean to be, for ive struggled with this over the years myself.
I do think the problem is that Society (i,e the fashion and media industry) is geared to making us feel that we shouldn?t be just slim, but THIN!! , If you look (and it is out there,) recently a lot of the research shows we actually live a bit longer at a slightly higher BMI , than at a lower.
I agree at 5.5 I might look better in my clothes at 9st 7 rather than 10.12 but probably actually NOT that much better , not so much that many people rather than me would notice. And at what price? I don?t think id be noticeably fitter than I am now. But I would be struggling with what I can and cannot eat (having guilt and self-loathing attacks when I eat something ?forbidden?. Making my friends and family guilty and their life hell because I cant eat or do what they can? Maybe I will get there one day on this WOE and maybe I wont , (most likely not as I?m well over 50 and haven?t been that thin since feeding DS 22 years ago ) ,
But this WOE feels like it liberated me from having to feel guilty when I do eat, I?m FAR more relaxed around food (that is so called ?naughty? food that beforehand I?d never allow myself to eat with out massive guilt) .And everyone?s asking me what am I doing that I wasn?t doing before .
So I feel I really am going to stick with this now.. Also I?ve discovered something ?...A lot of my ?naturally slim friends . (i.e those really annoying people we all know who have never yo- yo?ed or don?t diet ) , have told me that they ?quite naturally? eat this kind of way .. up one day , down the next - and kind of thought that?s totally normal..
I?m certainly not into advocating total ?fat ?acceptance? (or fat un-acceptance either!) here, but I think its good if you (ME) can get to a ?healthy? weight for you because hopefully its going to help you live longer and be happy with your self ,
But that?s it, A Healthy weight.. I really agree, with those here who have said if you want to be thin really thin and are looking for this as a way of starving yourself , or if you?ve has eating disorder in the past that this is not the WOE for you..
OH sH*T I know I?m going to get lots of flack for this post , but I do feel strongly enough about it to post it anyway...(head down, Laska!)
With love and respect
Laska

