Thanks everyone for your support. I think this should be my final post, as I seem to have accidentally derailed the thread!
@yodaforpresident “Letting others take centre stage” could also apply in small group acting or the dance audition. I have no idea if that’s why she didn’t get through, it’s just a guess. Anything could have gone wrong on the day, or perhaps they shortlist a fixed quota from each venue and she auditioned at one of the most competitive venues. It’s also quite possible she genuinely isn’t as good as the other girls her age who got callbacks. There’s no way I can know what the reason was.
@Wigeon Your advice has been very helpful. It’s good to know that the courses are high quality, there’s an opportunity for participants to receive detailed feedback from their own NYMT audition, rather than just general audition tips, and that impressing the course leaders will raise the DC’s profile within NYMT and sometimes even open up opportunities to take part in a production or workshop the same year if someone else drops out.
@Ubertomusic Neither of us has strong feelings about the rejection and neither of us feels she’s a failure. There are lots of other holiday productions available, both nationally and locally, and we both know she’s extremely talented.
I’m annoyed that I paid £55 for an audition which took a full day out of our very busy schedule and the only feedback we received was “You’re not good enough”.
The exact wording was: “Our creative teams take great care to make sure that what we offer you is right for you at this moment in your development. We are now pleased to invite you to one of our Skills workshops.”
Lliterally “You’re not good enough to be in a production or new musical workshop currently and need to improve your skills.”
There’s no room for interpreting this as “You’re very talented, but just not quite the casting type we’re looking for this year.”
Also, the email was sent out before the final audition day, reinforcing the “You’re not good enough” message, rather than letting DD believe she could have been on the shortlist for callbacks, but just didn’t quite make the final cut once all the auditions had taken place.
I’m not questioning the decision not to cast DD, and of course all the DC need to improve their skills, including those who are cast. It’s just that after paying £55 to attend an all day audition the least I would expect is a short line of feedback, eg “Singing and dance great, need to take more risks when acting.”
Finally, I totally understand DD’s concerns about attending a skills course she only has access to because she failed an audition. At her age (early teens), she would find this public acknowledgment of her failure very embarrassing and difficult to come to terms with, even if it’s a worthwhile course.
No more replies please, as I won’t be checking this thread again until next year!