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Glittertwins · 07/01/2024 11:33

Hope this works, am rubbish at this!

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Spendonsend · 13/05/2024 08:39

@itsgettingweird Thats so rubbish about the medals.do you have to put stickers on to remind you what they were for.

I dont know much about paraswimming. Our tiny club has just opened a para lane for competitive swimming with a specialist coach. Apparently, it was very hard to get the company that owns the pool to approve it. None of the big clubs round here have a lane but i assume the para swimmers swim with the AB swimmers at those club, which i guess for most paraswimmers is right for them? The people that joined us said that they had been turned away from a lot of clubs though and needed more support due to learning difficulties.

I will be making sure our club gala medals are the exact same as the AB swimmers though now (if they aren't already)

Eccle80 · 13/05/2024 09:11

@itsgettingweird that’s awful that they weren’t treated the same way with medals, I know you have said before about sometimes not being able to have the medal on the day too. They should either all be engraved or none. None of the medals at our regionals were engraved (I imagine it could cause some complications - there was a tie for a medal in one event), but thinking about it I don’t remember hearing them read out the para results whereas they did read out the age category results.

@elevens24 it is definitely tough when they have a late birthday, especially with a similar friend in the next age category to compare to. I think all you can do is encourage her to see the long term picture, and that as she gets older the age differences will level out (and for girls that will be sooner too). I’ve seen lots of swimmers who have come through later once they are into their teens. I also assume it was one of the level 1 meets as they had a combined 13-14 age group that was age on 31 December, so likely to have been a very competitive meet. I’ve tried to encourage mine not to focus too much on whether they get medals or not at open meets, because that’s a function of what kind of meet it is, and who the other swimmers are on the day, not necessarily how well they swam, but instead to try and look at what they have done well in their swimming.

Glittertwins · 13/05/2024 13:10

Summer nationals listing is pretty much in place. The south east regionals mess and re swim will affect 14/unders - is this right @itsgettingweird ?

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Hellocatshome · 13/05/2024 14:10

Glittertwins · 13/05/2024 13:10

Summer nationals listing is pretty much in place. The south east regionals mess and re swim will affect 14/unders - is this right @itsgettingweird ?

The message seems to be the reswims from South East will only add people not remove others from the list. Which seems to suggest there could be more than the original number of swimmers invited in some events for the under 14s.

Eccle80 · 13/05/2024 14:25

Hellocatshome · 13/05/2024 14:10

The message seems to be the reswims from South East will only add people not remove others from the list. Which seems to suggest there could be more than the original number of swimmers invited in some events for the under 14s.

Is that the bit on the front page about not removing existing data? It doesn’t seem very clear. And I’m confused how they can be certain everywhere except England is final - surely one of the swimmers in the SE could make British? And have they checked none entered have Welsh or Scottish nationality?

Hellocatshome · 13/05/2024 14:31

Eccle80 · 13/05/2024 14:25

Is that the bit on the front page about not removing existing data? It doesn’t seem very clear. And I’m confused how they can be certain everywhere except England is final - surely one of the swimmers in the SE could make British? And have they checked none entered have Welsh or Scottish nationality?

That seems to be what people on Facebook have taken from the message on the swimming results page. I have no skin in the game at all so haven't looked into it too far.

Eccle80 · 13/05/2024 14:36

Hellocatshome · 13/05/2024 14:31

That seems to be what people on Facebook have taken from the message on the swimming results page. I have no skin in the game at all so haven't looked into it too far.

The whole process seems designed to be as confusing as possible!

Glittertwins · 13/05/2024 14:37

The 14 under can only swim if they have a 200m time. It's not great but mine's over 14 so am out of it too. I read it as people can only be added, not removed as well.

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Porseb · 13/05/2024 14:53

Spendonsend · 13/05/2024 08:39

@itsgettingweird Thats so rubbish about the medals.do you have to put stickers on to remind you what they were for.

I dont know much about paraswimming. Our tiny club has just opened a para lane for competitive swimming with a specialist coach. Apparently, it was very hard to get the company that owns the pool to approve it. None of the big clubs round here have a lane but i assume the para swimmers swim with the AB swimmers at those club, which i guess for most paraswimmers is right for them? The people that joined us said that they had been turned away from a lot of clubs though and needed more support due to learning difficulties.

I will be making sure our club gala medals are the exact same as the AB swimmers though now (if they aren't already)

Our para swimmers train with our AB swimmers. Sometimes they get a lane to themselves if having to work on something specific.

Chaotica · 13/05/2024 20:22

We have a few swimmers like your DD @elevens24 and it is difficult, but it does even out. Some of the end of December kids are just beginning to get medals now they're in open mens/womens categories. DS is currently swimming in open mens (17 and over) even though he's 16 for a while yet and still doing GCSEs - he's tall and skinny and looks half the width of most of the people he's up against. He's definitely been inspired by Popovici Grin. I think it has made him faster as he's had to work harder to compete.

Glittertwins · 13/05/2024 20:44

Popvici - The Skinny Ninja!! Made me laugh when he described himself like that in an interview.

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Chaotica · 14/05/2024 00:09

Glittertwins · 13/05/2024 20:44

Popvici - The Skinny Ninja!! Made me laugh when he described himself like that in an interview.

Us too. An inspiration to skinny athletes everywhere. DS was well pleased to meet him. He seems like such a nice guy.

WidowTwonky · 14/05/2024 11:19

@elevens24 my swimmer has a Dec birthday too. Has never won a medal at anything above a L3, never been invited to any dev camps etc but has made nationals the past 2 years. We tackled it by setting incremental goals - make counties, make finals at counties, make regionals, make finals at regionals etc. and slowly but surely it is coming together.

Glittertwins · 14/05/2024 15:39

WidowTwonky · 14/05/2024 11:19

@elevens24 my swimmer has a Dec birthday too. Has never won a medal at anything above a L3, never been invited to any dev camps etc but has made nationals the past 2 years. We tackled it by setting incremental goals - make counties, make finals at counties, make regionals, make finals at regionals etc. and slowly but surely it is coming together.

Sounds a good plan. We only made National camp this year, despite having made nationals the year before. I struggle to work out how the selection works.

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Chaotica · 14/05/2024 16:49

We do similar @WidowTwonky. I don't think it helps having big goals set as something can easily go wrong (like illness or injury) and then the swimmer is disappointed and frustrated. As well as looking at PBs, I help DS gauge his progress by looking at what rank he entered on and which rank he was once he's swum. (So if he gets into Regionals as 35th in a particular race and then finishes at 12th, that's brilliant. In fact, 34th would be a win...) That way, even though he hasn't made finals, he can see he's getting better.

Hairyfairy01 · 14/05/2024 18:26

elevens24 · 12/05/2024 11:33

Hi all,

My dd12 loves her swimming and trains and works very hard. I feel so bad for her though as yesterday she was swimming in the 13-14 category, but she's not 13 until end of December. She's getting so disheartened and we had lots of tears yesterday. She's very hard on herself- despite me and her coaches reassurances that she is a great swimmer. Made worse that her bf (2 weeks younger) swims in the 12 category and came out with medals (though dd made the same times) and qualified for nationals. dd had a 14 second pb on a 400m freestyle (which is amazing!) but she's just always coming up short for qualifying time for nationals (by 2-3 seconds) because she's got an age disadvantage. Im trying to get her to not dwell on the age thing because there's nothing we can do about it.

Anybody else in the same situation that can give advice on how to deal with the disappointment though?

There are some amazing swimmers on here so it's easy to read this thread and be disillusioned I think. My dd is an 'average' swimmer but despite having an April birthday never gets medals simply because other swimmers of the same age are much faster. However her friend is 6 months older and often competes in a higher age category where despite getting slower times than my dd comes normally gets lots of medals simply because there's not as much competition for her. This has obviously been quite disheartening for her. However my dd learnt pretty early on that medals aren't likely to be coming her way so she concentrates on PB's and percentage of time knocked off (as well as all the friendships she has made).

Teateaandmoretea · 16/05/2024 07:14

@elevens24 in terms of qualification for stuff tbh I take the view that it’s just a swimming gala really with faster swimmers. I don’t think it’s healthy to stake everything on qualification for things - it makes them miserable. If they are going to qualify then they will and great but if they don’t then they need to concentrate on why they swim (ie that fundamentally they enjoy it). Neither of mine have ever qualified for anything higher than counties, dd2 probably won’t qualify for that this year.

@Hairyfairy01 I don’t know how old your dd is - you may find as she gets older (13+) competition in local galas reduces as the top squads at big clubs often don’t do them. That said most county level dd1’s age group is hotter than the one above so it also is a thing here.

Glittertwins · 16/05/2024 14:44

@itsgettingweird - Summer nationals list for para is actually up at the same time as AB! He's on it

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WidowTwonky · 17/05/2024 10:16

@Teateaandmoretea is absolutely right that setting unrealistic goals can make them miserable and that is why it's worthwhile spending time with the coach and setting personal goals each season. If their focus is on enjoying the swimming for fitness and friendship then set the goal accordingly. If they have ambitions to win a medal - great goal. If they have ambition to qualify for a L1/2 - great goal. Not one size fits all but when you are spending so much time on an activity you have to be happy else what is the point

itsgettingweird · 19/05/2024 08:17

Glittertwins · 13/05/2024 13:10

Summer nationals listing is pretty much in place. The south east regionals mess and re swim will affect 14/unders - is this right @itsgettingweird ?

Yes the 14 and understand that re swim can be entered onto the SE nationals list but it won't remove anyone who is currently on it. I guess they have to go faster than the slowest place?

itsgettingweird · 19/05/2024 08:19

Chaotica · 13/05/2024 20:22

We have a few swimmers like your DD @elevens24 and it is difficult, but it does even out. Some of the end of December kids are just beginning to get medals now they're in open mens/womens categories. DS is currently swimming in open mens (17 and over) even though he's 16 for a while yet and still doing GCSEs - he's tall and skinny and looks half the width of most of the people he's up against. He's definitely been inspired by Popovici Grin. I think it has made him faster as he's had to work harder to compete.

It's fascinating how much the men develop. Ds is 19 and still looks like a baby compared to the 21 and over men 😂

itsgettingweird · 19/05/2024 08:24

Glittertwins · 16/05/2024 14:44

@itsgettingweird - Summer nationals list for para is actually up at the same time as AB! He's on it

It was rather a shock!!!

Ds is happy he's got his freestyles. It's going to be interesting this year with all para swimmers taking part and the new changes to finals etc. 😄

Glittertwins · 19/05/2024 09:01

I didn't look at how the finals are going to be done for British as unlikely to make them. Might do for English

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itsgettingweird · 19/05/2024 09:05

Glittertwins · 19/05/2024 09:01

I didn't look at how the finals are going to be done for British as unlikely to make them. Might do for English

Finals are same for ABs.

They changed the qualifying criteria for paras alongside all the qualifying changes for ABs but they've also changed the finals for paras.

So the top 3 from each classification will qualify as per heat rankings and if there are still spaces they will return to top and filter down filling them.

Less of an issue with freestyle so won't affect ds at all I don't think - providing he swims the heats well enough to get enough points to rank him for the final 😂🤞

Teateaandmoretea · 19/05/2024 17:35

On a different note having previously been convinced that dd2 is fairly hopeless average she has swum some mahoosive pbs this weekend. 5 to be precise, that’s the thing with swimming isn’t it you never have any idea what’s coming next

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