Fair point ....brownies with butter knives can be scary at times.....
OK. ..following on from the who do you choose to be sizer debate....who do you choose to be flag barer/lay the wreath at remembrance parade.
Our unwritten rules are:
Shortlist the girls that will leave (due to age) before the next remembrance parade
Remove any girls that have already carried the flag or wreath.
If a girl stands out as obviously deserving the role(s) great. If not select from a hat.
BUT
This year we have no leavers that haven't already done it that will be attending.
The girls that stand out as obvious choices 'deserving' to have a role are not attending.
So we have looked at our Yr8s (we often cluster them academic year). We have only one and she isn't an obvious choice. She is not very committed, often sits out of activities because she doesn't want to join in. Her mum is a Brownie Guider tho so don't want to rock the boat. She would get another chance next year.
So then we look at our Yr7s. Removed those that aren't attending. Removed a couple of the less mature ones and have ended up with 3/4 girls for two roles. They all have their merits. And all have their demerits too.
Do we put them in a hat? Do we put the Yr8 in the hat too?
WWYD. It's such a responsibility each year made harder this year because none of our older girls fit the criteria we usually use and therefore it could theoretically go to anyone in the unit therefore there are many more girls that would be disappointed it is not their turn.