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Is this a well rounded exercise plan?

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naiveandrestles · 11/09/2025 07:49

I need to lose about 5stone. The stiffness and inflexibility bothers me the most. I'm also 45 and have previously been old Im at risk of osteoporosis.

I used to run but I dont think my knees and hips could cope with that right now. I've tried at home stuff but I just dont have the motivation for it. I hate just walking for the sake of walking (yet I loved running, go figure).

So, Im joining a gym. I dont like just "going to the gym". I find it boring and I dont push myself. I like classes but the only gym with classes is a bus ride away so I feel like I need to make it count when I'm there and do a few classes after each other.

Do you think the below is well rounded? I know if Im strict with myself for a month or so, it will become habit so it is realistic.

M - Spin (I love spin!) followed by body pump then a stretch class
W- Spin followed by yoga
T - Personal trainer to focus on weights

I have been addressing my diet.

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naiveandrestles · 24/11/2025 21:56

My PT has me using machines rather than free weights. I've been googling and there doesnt seem to be that much difference for what I want to achieve?

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naiveandrestles · 24/11/2025 22:05

MenoCoach · 24/11/2025 10:21

OP I'm a PT and work a lot with peri/post menopause/middle aged women. Have you thought about buying a spin bike for home, and working out at home? I'm a gym freak and would live in a gym if someone let me but I do NOT have a gym membership because life gets in the way, doesn't it? The time spent getting ready for the gym/driving there and back, all that faff, plus the membership cost, is a real time sucker. It got in my way so I swapped a long time ago to some gear at home and it's SO much easier.

Amazon etc often do amazing deals on exercise bikes etc and really you just need a yoga mat and dumbbells and a couple of exercise bands and you have everything.

The absolute golden word in fitness is not gym, it's consistency. Getting on the spin bike in front off the TV then knocking out 15 mins of weights daily or a few times a week is way easier at home. Just a thought and but worth considering!

What I would say is please include decent dumbbell workouts as you HAVE to prioritise bone loss by this point. You also need regular stretching with every workout to counter the stiffness.

Btw regarding hip stiffness, can you pinpoint why this might be e.g., a lot of sitting for work, c section scar, any usual suspects? I might be able to recommend a couple of things to help there.

Edited

Thank you.

I think my hip pain is mainly because I'm so overweight and stiff tbh. I think it will improve as my weight decreases.

My PT has me using a hip abbiction machine (?) And the one with the opposite movement to strengthen my hips.

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MenoCoach · 25/11/2025 07:05

naiveandrestles · 24/11/2025 21:56

My PT has me using machines rather than free weights. I've been googling and there doesnt seem to be that much difference for what I want to achieve?

Sure you could do either if you have access to them...there are differences, but in general both will give amazing results if used properly.

OP if you struggle with the new set up (I hope it works but if it doesn't) and realise home is the only option, workout with dumbbells at home and use YouTube fitness videos. Even if you don't enjoy it at first. At some point if you are consistent enough your brain will crave the workout. The bigger picture for me, if you were my client, would be that you really need to prioritise your bone density. You could even consider online PT sessions. I hope it works at the new gym though!

naiveandrestles · 25/11/2025 09:18

MenoCoach · 25/11/2025 07:05

Sure you could do either if you have access to them...there are differences, but in general both will give amazing results if used properly.

OP if you struggle with the new set up (I hope it works but if it doesn't) and realise home is the only option, workout with dumbbells at home and use YouTube fitness videos. Even if you don't enjoy it at first. At some point if you are consistent enough your brain will crave the workout. The bigger picture for me, if you were my client, would be that you really need to prioritise your bone density. You could even consider online PT sessions. I hope it works at the new gym though!

The weights will be bone density wont they?

We essentially have one room downstairs and now I have my work desk in my bedroom, no room to do anything upstairs. We have a small yard. Working out at home isnt going to happen.

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Happleandhorange · 25/11/2025 11:20

I had a thought re your walks. You said you need to be able to hear your surroundings. Why not get some cheap bone conduction earphones and distract yourself with something? They dont shut out surrounding noise.

naiveandrestles · 25/11/2025 11:53

Happleandhorange · 25/11/2025 11:20

I had a thought re your walks. You said you need to be able to hear your surroundings. Why not get some cheap bone conduction earphones and distract yourself with something? They dont shut out surrounding noise.

I'll look into those after Christmas thank you.

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MenoCoach · 25/11/2025 16:30

naiveandrestles · 25/11/2025 09:18

The weights will be bone density wont they?

We essentially have one room downstairs and now I have my work desk in my bedroom, no room to do anything upstairs. We have a small yard. Working out at home isnt going to happen.

Yes, weights will work for bone density.

You have space for dumbbells at home, just saying. All you need is enough room to raise your arms to the sides while holding them, squatting on the spot, etc. You can get a whole weights workout done that way.

naiveandrestles · 25/11/2025 18:02

MenoCoach · 25/11/2025 16:30

Yes, weights will work for bone density.

You have space for dumbbells at home, just saying. All you need is enough room to raise your arms to the sides while holding them, squatting on the spot, etc. You can get a whole weights workout done that way.

If we dont have room to lie on the floor when everyone is home, we dont have room to wave my arms around.

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harriet32 · 25/11/2025 18:08

I was a body pump instructor, those who did a spin class before it were hardcore

LondonGalll · 25/11/2025 18:15

thats a great plan! Can you listen to audible, a podcast or phone a friend while walking? That’s how it’s more bearable for me. The other option is getting more steps in throughout the day by parking further away from the supermarket/school/work or hand delivering a birthday card or whatever.

LuckyNumberFive · 25/11/2025 18:33

naiveandrestles · 25/11/2025 18:02

If we dont have room to lie on the floor when everyone is home, we dont have room to wave my arms around.

You have such little space that you can't stand up with your arms outstretched anywhere in your home?

I agree with pp, the quickest way to lose weight is by using weights. 15 minutes a day of proper, concentrated free weights will help bone density, weight loss, and strength.

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