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Daisy Keech bubble bum workout - anyone done the challenge?

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Workinghardeveryday · 24/04/2021 09:47

Currently on day 4, I have done it 3 times a day, I am desperate to lift and grow my little bum as quickly as possible!
Got resistance bands too.
Anyone tried the challenge? What did you think of it, did it work?
Also thinking of doing her hourglass challenge too!

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SwordPlay · 25/04/2021 09:27

Hello all and Happy Sunday!

@Workinghardeveryday - it took a couple of weeks, perhaps less to start seeing the difference. Not sure about hip dips but some of the movements Romy goes through in her video are specifically good for them as well - apparently..

Ladies, first of all - I totally see your point. However, let's remember that:

All of us want to sometimes impress someone with how we look, be it a partner, a boss, a female friend, our social media following etc. Some women - I am one of them - like the men's approval and compliments - I know it's an outdated view but that's just how I feel. It's not like it validates me but I DO enjoy it. I also enjoy it when women compliment me, hugely :-) (Having said that, I had loads of hang-ups and low self-esteem when I was younger and never felt pretty enough, so of course I understand it's a reaction to that and it will take some effort to undo it...)

It's like not OP wants to get a plastic surgery (at least I hope so!).. Exercise is good, not just for your body but for mental health as well, plus it releases dopamine, which makes you happier and more balanced in general. What I am saying, this isn't anything radical - it's a good thing to be doing. It may not be for a reason you agree with, but it is good for you.

OP, having read the background story, I do feel for you, but as long as you enjoy the exercise and the look you're going for is something you like as well, that's not so bad. Has he always liked big bums..? Because, obviously, they weren't so in vogue even 10 years ago, and now they're everywhere (Thank you, Kardashians..!) The fashion & beauty industry affects everyone, it's important to know that your preferences are your own and not dictated by advertising.. ( By the way my own DP is a semi professional athlete with a great body and looks in general, and he only ever went on at me for not exercising - as it was clearly apparent that the lack of it was affecting my happiness and day-to-day decision making. He actively likes all of my features (even the ones that I don't) and only ever encourages me to change things that can be changed - IF I want to.)

Sorry if this a bit too long, hope you all have a lovely day xx

crumpet · 25/04/2021 09:28

Op “The only thing I can do to make myself feel better is try to make it lifted and toned and hopefully more rounded.”

Or ditch the idiot and find someone normal, who likes you as you are. That will also make you feel better.

MikeWozniaksGloriousTache · 25/04/2021 09:29

The only thing I can do to make myself feel better is try to make it lifted and toned and hopefully more rounded.
The ONLY thing you can do to make yourself feel better after your partner insults your appearance is to appease him?
Christ no.
Self esteem therapy and ditching the shallow wanksplat would be number 1 on my list like.

SwordPlay · 25/04/2021 09:30

@Workinghardeveryday Just read your update. Please DON'T have bum implants... There are horrendous potential risks..!

SwordPlay · 25/04/2021 09:35

@Workinghardeveryday My last 2 cents on this: If at any point you two break up - would you be happy with the body you're working for or would you abandon all of this working out - this is what you need to ask yourself. Are you going to be happier for yourself or would you not care in the slightest..?

the below quote
if I had bum implants he would want to fuck me every night!
made me really annoyed.. Who would say something like that to their partner..?!

FishyFriday · 25/04/2021 09:39

You should post about this in relationships @Workinghardeveryday. Because it's not exercise advice you need.

Your partner has behaved dreadfully. How dare he destroy your confidence like this, and manipulate you by crying as he told you to exercise and get surgery to make your body into his current fantasy. He's an abusive arsehole.

Redcrayons · 25/04/2021 09:40

The only thing I can do to make myself feel better is try to make it lifted and toned and hopefully more rounded

It’s not the only thing. You can also tell him to STFU.

MoiraNotRuby · 25/04/2021 09:45

@crumpet

Op “The only thing I can do to make myself feel better is try to make it lifted and toned and hopefully more rounded.”

Or ditch the idiot and find someone normal, who likes you as you are. That will also make you feel better.

Yes! Try this plan OP

sar302 · 25/04/2021 09:47

And what if next time he tells you he'd love an aspect of you to be different, that you can't work on with resistance bands? Breasts not big enough? Nose too pointy? WTAF. And crying too. What a pile of wank.

There's definitely an arse problem here - but it's not the one at the top of your legs.

Mugginyouleftrightandcentre · 25/04/2021 09:53

You do realise that those 'bubble bums' aren't real don't you? They are created with clever lighting, angles, body positioning and often a hefty dose of photoshop. Oh and those leggings with the weird seam right up the arse crack.

As for your partner crying when he was telling you that your body isn't good enough for him, WTAF? He sounds like an utter prick.

Mugginyouleftrightandcentre · 25/04/2021 09:54

Yes, you are definitely worrying about the wrong arse here!

fairydustandpixies · 25/04/2021 09:54

I've heard it all now.

Is your 'DP' also trying to change his body as quickly as possible to meet your requests??

suckingonchillidogs · 25/04/2021 10:01

Sounds like you already have a massive arse OP.

Blondiney · 25/04/2021 10:07

@suckingonchillidogs

Sounds like you already have a massive arse OP.

Indeed

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Workinghardeveryday · 25/04/2021 10:11

I know you’re all right, he was bang out of order. He has gone back on it saying I have a lovely bum etc, obviously a load of shite as happy for me to continue with strict work out routine!
I wouldn’t care, the thing he liked about me most when we met was my bum!
I would like a nicer bum so it’s not all about him, it’s about making me feel more confident.
Don’t worry definitely not having bum implants! And if there is ever anything else said about my body I will stand there and explain how he has let himself go, put on 4 stone at least, cock could be longer and wider and rhinoplasty.
I can’t through 13 years away with 3 kids over his selfish comment about my little flat bum

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ShinyGreenElephant · 25/04/2021 10:17

He sounds absolutely disgusting in every way. Honestly if my husband said that to me he would be gone and I would be telling him everything that was wrong with his body too, I'm furious for you!

QueenPaw · 25/04/2021 10:17

I saw this the other day
https://www.instagram.com/reel/CN-DhNWp5Tk/?igshid=13swb5gdf9sdn

I have a flat bum, and hip dips. It's just how my body is built. Any bloke who wants to pass negative comments on it will be out the door. Your only response to him crying over it should be "are you fucking kidding me? Get a grip"

BackYardBetty · 25/04/2021 10:22

You can’t get a big, peachy, round bum if it’s not naturally your shape. Exercise can lift and sculpt, but naturally big bums are made of fat. The ones you see on Instagram models are either naturally curvy girls, fat injections, implants or heavily filtered pictures.

More importantly, though, your boyfriend sounds absolutely disgusting. What a pig. Don’t change anything for him!

Tell him you’d be much more up for sex if his dick grew five inches...then dump him!

HoldontoOneMoreDay · 25/04/2021 10:40

@Workinghardeveryday

I agree with all of your comments. I couldn’t imagine saying something so hurtful to anyone ever. He knows how I feel about my appearance which makes it so much worse. And to top it off he said at the end, if I had bum implants he would want to fuck me every night! Yes, I can’t begin to tell you how embarrassed/humiliated/ugly I felt. The only thing I can do to make myself feel better is try to make it lifted and toned and hopefully more rounded. It can go bigger because it already has and I have only been doing this since Tuesday. You will all no doubt think I am a sad idiot which I suppose I am. But this is my way of coping with being told the equivalent of me telling him he has a tiny cock.

No love, the way you make yourself feel better is by getting rid of the thing that's making you feel bad. That's your husband, not your arse.

Capricornandproud · 25/04/2021 10:43

I have a big bun which my partner loves but I shit you not; get those grey tik tok leggings (grey is lovely) until you get there with the bubble butt! They’re amazing!

RandomMess · 25/04/2021 10:57

Honestly it sounds like he has his eye on someone else or it's going to be his excuse for f*cking someone else.

Iamthewombat · 25/04/2021 11:04

@Iminaglasscaseofemotion

He was crying when he told you he didn't like your arse. What a wanker. He sounds like an absolute twat.

Exactly this.

Quartz2208 · 25/04/2021 11:05

The workout itself looks good and I really like working out with bands and I have noticed a difference

But you cannot work out 12 times over a 4 day period that is seriously worrying that he has had that effect on you. Its awful emotional abuse and I suggest you take that part onto another board because it sounds like you need some help and support with it

Kittykat93 · 25/04/2021 11:41

Honestly op your partner is pathetic. He actually fucking cried because you dont have a big fat arse??? I've never heard anything so ridiculous. And more fool you for working out all day trying to pander to his desires. Ffs

Capricornandproud · 25/04/2021 14:47

Wooaahhh... posted before I read your updates. Fuck that!! You go for the shape YOU’D like Op. xx

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