@iloverockyeah sorry 🙈
If getting the bike out feels a faff - unless you have a dedicated corner/ room/ garage where you can keep the turbo setup all the time... turbo probably won’t work as it’ll also seem a faff to setup. When I do go out, I get everything ready the night before. So I lay my kit out (in order of putting on), pockets filled with snacks and pump. I bring my bike in, do tyre pressure, lube chain, tool bag attached, filled bottles on. Lights and computer charged and attached. Shoes and overshoes by bike. Breakfast pre-made. I can go from getting out of bed to starting my outdoor ride in 20 mins.
The other stuff all sounds easily fixable. When I first started - could I fix a puncture/ remove my wheel?! NO! I went through all the basic issues you can fix on the road and spent time focussing on resolving them indoors until I felt confident. It’s got me out of some sticky situations, I can tell you 😂 Where I live is also rural, many places I ride have no phone reception. So it’s particularly important I can change a tube, resolve a basic mechanical. Also if you keep your bike well maintained, the chances of a mechanical are slim anyway. I’d never leave the house without a multi tool, spare tube, tyre levers, spoke key, patches and pump. Look on GCN Chanel on YouTube. There’s loads of beginners guide films for all the basics. If you plan to turbo you’d kinda need to know anyway! You can still get a mechanical or flat indoors!! Likewise you’d need a well maintained bike.
Some clubs and organisations will run women’s only bike maintenance courses. My local council does. So does my club.
In terms of falling off, I guess we’ve all had that fear. I was quite scared initially, I couldn’t use the breaks properly (only used the back one!!!!)... I did a MTB skills course, it all transferred to road confidence. Yeah I’ve fallen off. It happens. But I put myself more at risk because I race. I just have an attitude of yeah, it’ll happen, it’s rare, there’s no point stressing about it. The tiny risk far outweighs the sheer joy I get. I’ve come off (when out alone) on one occasion broke a rib and another broke my shoulder. On both occasions after bending my rear mech back and bashing the hoods back in place, I carried on my way. On both occasions it bloody hurt the next day, adrenaline is a marvellous pain killer!! I’ve had numerous other crashes where I’ve just sustained minor bruising and road rash. I suppose I’m trying to say falling off really isn’t disastrous. More often then not you can carry on your way.
You’ll find lots of tutorials about smooth/ appropriate gear changing online. GCN again has one. Unless you’ve ridden since being a small child it’s not something you’d necessarily know how to do. It’s something we’ve all learnt. Although looking at some of the men I see out, some regular cyclists still haven’t learnt how!!
So what if a hills is so steep you can’t ride it?! Again we’ve probably all been there. It’ll be a tiny proportion of a ride though. You’ll get stronger quicker and it’ll cease to be a problem. Having said that if you have more suitable gearing it can eliminate it. I have a crazy cassette on my winter bike as I use it for commuting (lugging heavy laptop and paperwork over 16-20% gradients) and tow my 4 y/o DS. It looks stupid but I don’t care, as I can get up anything with the load.
It really does sound like a breeze ride would be ideal. The leader can help you with gear changing etc. I actually trained to be one. I did it (and everyone else did it) because we’re utterly passionate about getting women into regular cycling. That’s why the programme exists. It’s not about developing racers or endurance athletes, literally just helping others develop a love of cycling by helping overcome the barriers. Take a look: www.letsride.co.uk/breeze