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Question for sports psychologists

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Blueballoons4 · 11/02/2021 14:26

I have a very disabling illness. (I won't go into what it is, as that would distract from my question, which is not specific to this illness.) For over a year I've been mainly housebound. For the last few days I've managed to walk part-way down my street once a day. That may not sound like much, but I'm delighted, excited, and hopeful that this is the start of greater progress. I aim to gradually build up my walking.

However, for the past few days I've also been sleeping very badly. As I try to go to sleep, I feel worried that if I don't sleep enough, my health will regress and I'll be too unwell to continue my walking regime. This worry of course makes it difficult to sleep!

I'm thinking that the same issue, in principle, must come up a lot in sport, e.g. if a marathon runner is in the lead, they could worry about losing the lead, and that could make them tense up, which could slow them down. If you're a sports psychologist/coach, how do you advise people to address this?

By the way, I've tried having camomile tea before bed, listening to relaxation CDs etc., but that's not what I'm asking about here - I'm interested in what to do with one's mind in this situation.

Super grateful for any tips! :)

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Chocolateteabag · 13/02/2021 18:09

Hi OP,

I'm not a sports psychologist sorry, but I am an experienced insomniac!
I get the whirling thoughts and worries - usually all to do with work stresses. Used to be around getting up early and if I didn't get to sleep, I'd be too tired to drive safely etc etc.

I have developed a pack of strategies which I find help me:

  1. Get up! Don't lie in bed trying to fight your way to sleep. Get up and go do something. Have another warm drink. Read or watching something gentle on TV (landscape/portrait painter of the year, Great British pottery show, QI whatever - just make sure it's "warm hearted")
Give your self at least 20-40 mins before trying to go back to bed.
  1. Give up trying to sleep. Just stop trying. Either lie in bed and just think about stuff, or get up and watch TV (see above) or read. Do set an alarm as you'll likely drop off at around 6am and then not wake up when you need to!
You can manage a night without sleep every so often. Just sitting/laying quietly will give your body some rest. Then the next night you should be vv tired and get to sleep much more easily. If you really need to - take a 26 min power nap in the afternoon
  1. If you are having whirly doom thoughts - try taking the thought all the way through to the end. So instead of trying to stop worrying "what if..", imagine if "it" happened. This sometimes helps me to cut a whirling thought short.
  1. Before I started running, I used to imagine myself running along a beach into mist. I used to have the Kate Bush "running up that hill" playing in my head too. Basically visualising the thing I wanted to do, but in quite a mindless way. It used to help me switch off.

No idea if any of that helps you - but maybe the bump will get some more people to respond too?

Blueballoons4 · 17/02/2021 13:37

Thank you very much for these tips! Very kind of you to take the time, and I’ll give them a try! Good luck with your own sleeping!

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