I started exercising properly a few months ago (3 x 30 min cardio per week plus a couple of short runs, nothing that intense). The main reason I started was for my mental health as well as to be healthy in general. I was happy with my figure when I started, but I have become quite a lot bigger from putting on muscle and still having my previous fat, to the point that I am now a whole dress size larger and look noticeably bigger.
Obviously I realise being fit, healthy and strong is the most important thing and I feel a bit vain and silly for minding - I wish I didn't care - but it's quite a big change to suddenly be a size large in some shops, and annoying not to fit any of my old jeans.
I have started strength training with body weight and dumbbells, and running longer distances (currently I can do about 5k) - will these help? Or do I just need to get over it and accept my new size?