Been away for a few days, middleykid's wheeze drama again. Back home, all good. Hurrah for the NHS.
Katnip, I'm not aware of a link with doing the exercises causing cystitis. There IS a link between holding your pee midstream (that used to be an exercise) and what you describe, a backflow of urine, and UTIs. Which is why that's now recommended to be done as a "check" not more than once a week.
Hope you're feeling better.
Gingham - Glad the TVT has worked for you. It is great surgery, it's been well used for 15 years and has worked well for millions of women.
Running, yep, it's a tape that slings behind the urethra, hoicking it all up a bit. Certainly, they need replacing (10-15 years) and, yep, I'd agree with the surgeon that the longer you can stall it for, the better.
That's not to say that I in any way disapprove! It's a big operation, a good 6 weeks recuperation time, and, guess what, after you've had one, you've STILL got to #doyerblardyexercises!
I do know women in their late 30s who've had the procedure with great success. Suppose much of it depends on the particular surgeon?