LQ i can only survive using black humour at this point.
I've become a gardener this year (as was the plan way back in December before this crisis even materialised), I adore Christmas and much to DH's frustration I love Ikea.
However even though they may remain open and I could go, i regard them as now off limits to any sane person. I have no intention in joining a bored zombie slouch around either, as I fear its a recipe for disaster at this point. Especially as anyone still doing those things past Thursday is more of a risk taker than I'm comfortable with.
We decided last week prior to any rumour of an English Lockdown that as of this weekend we were home for the duration and we were fully returning to Zoom. And that's it until probably the spring now in so far as we can avoid contact with people.
DS has had his hair cut. The Christmas shopping is all but done and the kids presents are all wrapped, packed and posted. Christmas dinner is on order. The Brexit shopping plan is largely sorted or in planned progress. Santa has been busy with early plans and wrapping to ensure covid safe delivery and becoming a super spreader. I have cherry infused brandy in the fridge. I am spent up and done. Tbh I'm done with all the insanity and the only thing left to do is watch it all unfold and unravel in a hideously predictable reason.
I don't blame you for picking up a uni child.
The guidance contains a clause that should bother students - arrangements for the end of term will be announced at a later date. They will have to be tested / quarantined or will not be able to return home for Christmas at all.
But i also stress that there is an exemption in the rules for prevention of harm to an individual. And for people to keep this in mind over the next few weeks and months.
I know a lot of people really in a bad place right now. If you are concerned for the welfare of anyone you are within the law to assist them / visit them. I have already seen a lot of threads about the tier rules along these lines about mixing for legitimate care and support reasons because people don't fully understand the law. Its troubling.
So do what you need to. And rant and rave as you need. Its past the point where anyone can do anything different and where normal rules apply as far as im concerned.