MadeleineMaxwell you are very much correct. It's a real pity that so many people just don't know how damaging Brexit would be. It will fundamentally alter the lives and destinies of UK people. The mass media in this country is mostly actively working against the interests of the mass of UK people, and for the proprietors of these papers. Check their owner's tax and citizenship status if you want to know more.
Everyone is used to voting for MPs. We do it regularly. If the person we voted for disappoints us then we vote for someone else next time. First past the post is pretty acceptable. Whoever we elect will be an MP, and they’ll do the same job, albeit in their own way. All the voting choices are very similar in nature.
Referendums are fundamentally different. For a start we use them only rarely. The choices are between fundamentally different things such as maintaining the status quo or going for very significant change. There is no way of reversing a decision save calling another referendum. Also, typically the risks all lie with one choice. Because of this, nations that regularly use referendums such as the Swiss use them late in a thorough process that flushes out all the information voters need and debates all the options before the referendum takes place.
On top of this, it is generally most unusual to use a 50% threshold in a referendum, the usual reason given for a higher threshold is that a proper mandate for change needs to be demonstrated. 70% is a common mark. Other nations are aware that a result close to the 50% mark is not a clear mandate with the big risk that it can permanently divide the electorate.
It’s this last situation we’re in. We had just about no proper evidence at all provided by either the Remain or the Leave groups. We are having an inconclusive result force fed to us by biased parts of the media and a clique of out of touch politicians, all of whose careers will benefit. Even business and the BBC are not debating or challenging the interpretation of the Brexit result, as they could and should. The result is in no way a mandate for change worthy of a nation of our standing. Where has single nation politics gone? Why is Britain at a stroke deserting the nations we are in so many ways closest to?
Has anyone heard anyone but the Brexiteers tell us that Brexit will be good? It's all what IT people call vapourware - just talk. We have strong understandings with our EU neighbours, who respect us for what we did in WW2. They just cannot understand why the whole nation is being taken away from them. Do you fancy trade deals with the USA (making love to a gorilla is the right metaphor here), or being alone and dragged in to assist USA military escapades, or having to fend off Russia on our own. We need to get real and stay close to a union of nations that may not be perfect, but it is evolving along peaceful and democratic lines.