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Westministenders: Rebel Rebel Your Brexit is a Mess.

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RedToothBrush · 13/12/2017 19:46

Hot Tramp, I love you so!

The European Parliament have agreed to progress talks to the next stage. Despite Brexiteers saying its not legally binding, it is apparent that the EU certainly disagree.

Not only that, but the wording of the deal goes further. It binds us to not being able to agree and new trade deals for 2 years.

The All Important Amendment 7 to the Great Repel Bill has been successful. May’s power grab has a set back.

By just FOUR votes the government was defeated. How May will be regretting that pointless election tonight.

Parliament will have a meaningful vote on the exit terms.

But don’t be too excited. Brussels might not like this as May can not guarantee the UK will agree to a deal. It means the the EU are negotiating with parliament NOT May now.

There is also the suggestion that the mood of parliament is changing and is beginning to lean more towards a EFTA / EEA type deal.

But equally this could also send us to the brink with a deal from the EU that could be rejected by parliament.

The stakes just got higher.

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Maryz · 20/12/2017 22:43

She looks to me as though she's about to have a nervous breakdown.

I don't like her, I find her opinions questionable, but I have empathy for anyone who is made ill by their job, and I think that's where she is heading.

I hope she has some sensible people supporting her in her personal life.

Maryz · 20/12/2017 22:44

yy HashiAsLarry, it's all very YesMinister-ish these days, isn't it. Ireland's the same; the Minister of Finance generally has no idea how the Department of Finance operates.

SwedishEdith · 20/12/2017 22:48

I suspect she still confers with Nick Timothy (and will with DG). I mean, she has to - she, allegedly, has very few friends. I think she thinks she can't resign plus the EU would prefer to negotiate with her rather than BG. Dutiful vicar's daughter, only child, parents died young. I still, secretly, harbour the fantasy that much of what she says is to appease the Tory headbangers whilst she's aiming for BINO. If Philip was a strong Remainer, I can't see her going against that? But, who knows?

SwedishEdith · 20/12/2017 22:51

Agree that her mental health must be at breaking point. Even the amount of events and travel she has to do looks exhausting to me.

HashiAsLarry · 20/12/2017 22:51

The thing is that if Phillip really has millions, but at least knowing they have an indirect link to paradise paper investments, I suspect his steer is rather more against the new tax fraud laws than pro EU.

SisterLocation · 20/12/2017 23:01

TM is also type 1 diabetic, hate to think what effect all this stress is having on her blood sugar levels 😱 It's a tricky condition to manage without stress. This must be terrible for her physical and mental health, she ain't exactly young either.

Peregrina · 20/12/2017 23:43

but I have empathy for anyone who is made ill by their job, and I think that's where she is heading.

I am afraid I don't. Some medical conditions rule you out of certain jobs, and there is nothing to be done about it. She knew before she took the job on that she had type 1 diabetes, which must require careful management, and she should have thought long and hard about whether it meant sacrificing her long held ambition to be PM. She didn't appear to have done that.

As far as we can tell, her marriage is happy, and I believe that she does have some friends outside politics.

lessworriedaboutthecat · 21/12/2017 00:56

As peregrina says she knew what the job would entail when she applied for it. She cant and to be fair to her isn't now complaining about it. IMO opinion she is a decent but fairly mediocre woman doing the best she can with the cards she's being dealt.

Butterymuffin · 21/12/2017 01:17

I don't know how decent she is. I know she said things on coming into office that suggested she had a moral code (in a way that Boris, for instance, clearly has nothing even resembling one) but she hasn't followed through on those (modern slavery, families in hardship etc) That may be at least in part because Brexit has become so all-consuming. But she's been divisive where she could have sought to bring
Remainers and Leavers together. And she seems weak in her reliance on other people to steer her.
All that said, I still think Cameron will be judged more harshly by history, since he was in a position to do so much more in office, didn't (equal marriage is possibly his only achievement) and then dragged us all into this totally unnecessary and avoidable mess. May didn't create it, even if she is doing a piss poor job of cleaning it up. Cameron basically gambled with the UK and lost.

MsHooliesCardigan · 21/12/2017 02:20

Buttery I totally agree. If I had my way, DC would be tried for treason rather than raking it in on the after dinner circuit.
It is absolutely indefensible to have called this Referendum and to have made no plans in the event of a Leave vote.
And then to piss off and leave everyone else to clear up his mess.
I don’t have a lot of time for TM but, to be fair, she didn’t create this mess.
I just cannot see how this is going to end. It’s getting farcical now. We have become a total laughing stock.

thecatfromjapan · 21/12/2017 04:39

Frankiestein401

^I have family in the north west of England and their vote was as much to hit out at the south (who are seen as having shafted them for decades) as any kind of desperation.

suspect that whilst all the talk is about protecting the city and nothing about fixing the country there won't be any swing to remain.^

I'm sorry but I sadly disagree.

I have slowly, slowly come to the conclusion that nothing is going to shift those Leave voters. Nothing that people say; nothing that happens.

I say that as someone who has always, passionately, believed that politics is essentially about persuasion and change and is essentially dynamic: a process of pragmatism that is of its nature non-ideal, a mixture of the changing material real and response to that change; a process of persuading people to move from fixed ideologies in response to changed situations, a process of response between experience-based standpoints and discourses that enable people to live full lives as political beings.

And I've seen that work in my life time, with genuine positive political and social change and the evolution of political discourses both at the level of how people explain their reality and in legislature.

But this, this, is something different.

It is beyond that process of persuasion, argument and experience.

I think it is close to grooming and radicalisation. And, yes, I know that radicalisation is a kind of 'discourse of the oppressed' - but I would say that it is a kind of zero-sum discourse, and its very extremism is based on a belief that the process of interactive political discourse itself is dead. It is, in many ways, a discourse founded on the death of the political process - or at the very least, a death of the hope of political discourse.

Which is why reasoning, discussion, experience, talking has no effect.

There are no 'magic words' that can reach through that.

And, yes, I truly think that a lot of those people have been 'groomed' into that position. They have been radicalised by a discourse that has taken an experience (for example, the decline of manufacturing and traditional industries; the concentration of labour and wealth in emerging areas of the UK) and constructed a discourse of hate around that.

Hate is stronger than bread. Hate, I think, drives people on when their stomach is empty. I suspect we are going to find out if I'm right about that.

And I fundamentally disagree that there is no point in talking about the damage to the economy and the City and replacing it with some sort of fakery about 're-building the economies in a geographically fairer way'. Why? Because that would be lying. It would be ameliorative fantasy. And people have been lied to enough, surely? Some of us, for sure, have been sickened by the force-feeding of lies and half-truths. By the wilful mis-representations, and the giving of deception-soaked fantasy and half-truths. By the gentle stroking of people's most base instincts, whilst they were encouraged to believe things they, deep-down, knew to be a complete fabrication of the truth.

We're not children. We're adults. We have to accept and own our responsibility. And the truth. And the truth is that experts, yes experts, have revised the damage to the UK's GDP - from a pre-Referendum estimate of between 4% and 10%, to a whopping 12.5% - partly because no-one seriously believed the City would go.

It's pointless not telling people how important the City is. It's childish feeding people's resentment and hatred of it's dominance in the economy. It is what it is. We don't have time or room for manoeuvre to change that dominance now. Instead, we are facing a massive hit to the UK's GDP.

We need to be very grown-up in discussing that. No more cartoon-cut-out hate figures. No more appealing to limbic emotions.

As one of my friends said to me a day or so after the result: how does a first-world nation survive a hit of that magnitude to its GDP and not become a failed state?

That is the discussion we need to have.

It is, without a doubt, what others are having - and some of those people have some really, really unpleasant solutions to that problem.

The conversation about the City does talk about the dispossessed - or those with a profound feeling of dispossession. Lots of us talk about how the impact of Brexit is going to fall disproportionately on 'Leave' areas. We talk about how it will decimate the public sector: if anyone feels dispossessed right now, I would say this: 'If you have a reasonable expectation of being treated in a hospital when you are ill, of having your children actually educated in a school, have some kind of help when in hardship - you have much, much more to be dispossessed of.'

None of this makes any difference. It's not heard.

Some - many - people are far, far past the point of joining in with the conversation. They have left the conversation. Nothing is going to bring it back. That is why I say that Brexit was a kind of mass radicalisation.

It's one reason I hate the 'I hate London and Londoners' threads on MN. They popped up big time throughout the Referendum. The Chaos Merchants that appeared on MN peddled a strange muddy line that mixed up anti-semitism, anti-Bankers, anti-elitism, xenophobia, anti-cultural liberalism, fear, insecurity and economic liberalism. It was grooming. A mixture of sops to people's darkest insecurities and soporifics about the misgivings of the result of such poisonous ideological opium.

I genuinely think that very little that happens or is said over the next few years is going to shift all of that. So, the very least we can do is to try to tell the truth, not lie, not soft-peddle, not misrepresent, not feed the hunger for fantasy, not appeal to people's needs for an ego-reassuring lie, not appeal to irrational emotion over the need for truth. I honestly think that it is something we need to do as a good in itself and because anything else is hopeless.

thecatfromjapan · 21/12/2017 04:55

Frankiestein401 I realise that post sounded too harsh; it sounded as though it was directed wholly at you, quite negatively.

What I want to say is that I get why you posted that.

I think it comes from a place where you are really hoping that someone, somewhere will come up with something that will break through to people, and wake them from this self-destructive journey.

But, here's the thing. I'm guessing you, yourself, have tried. Has it worked?

If there were 'magic words', they would have worked. People have said all sorts of things. There are reams of words out there. They don't work.

Sadly, I think we are in the grip of something quite deep and genuinely chaotic. In thirty years time, it will be a feast for political theorists and historians. Sadly, we're living through it - and we're yet to find the threads (which will be so clear to those historians of the future, illuminated with the light of hindsight) which will lead us through this labyrinth.

likesbulbsandlamps · 21/12/2017 06:23

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likesbulbsandlamps · 21/12/2017 06:33

Sorry, it seems rude to just mark with a dot and not say what an interesting post, cat from Japan. I agree with you.

lonelyplanetmum · 21/12/2017 06:53

^I have family in the north west of England and their vote was as much to hit out at the south (who are seen as having shafted them for decades) as any kind of desperation.

suspect that whilst all the talk is about protecting the city^ and nothing about fixing the country there won't be any swing to remain.

Despite that very heartfelt post from thecat I agree with part of the above post. There only needs to be a slight swing to remain to change the ' winners' and think this has already happened. But for there to be a hugely significant swing to remain there needs to be visible signs of addressing inequality. The only way surely is to address both aspects, protection of the City ( although I feel it's too late) and fixing the country ( impossible with this disability benefit removing, education and health starving go'vt ). You need one of these things to achieve the other.

The people who voted Leave in my acquaintance at least four were just like FIL sitting in their comfortable recliner chairs watching TV and reading the Daily Vile -coming up with absurd comments like " they" want to take us over.

However the most poignant discussion for me came from an extended family member, 'auntie' except she was my mother's friend really. She lives in a lovely town in Yorkshire but has had a tough life. Husband, who had violent tendencies anyway, had an affair, leaving her to bring up three kids on her own. She's intelligent but no qualifications to speak of, she received no maintenance from ex h. She supported the children by shop and care work, then tragically one of her children died in their 20s from cancer. Such a tough life. She always lived in rented or council housing.

I will never forget what she said to me around the referendum.She was anxious and deliberating about voting and said I don't know where to get the information I need to understand all this. I tried to give her proper stuff to read but in the end she voted leave. She said I just want a change, and with tears welling up she said " We've had enough".

There was no point trying to persuade her that the EU wasn't the source of what she wanted to change.

lonelyplanetmum · 21/12/2017 06:57

Oh and on a completely flippant note, I updated DH with yesterday's discourse about a NZ model for the UK emphasising the reliance of the former on sheep and forestry.

He spontaneously did a little jig singing " I'm a lumberjack and I'm ok" !

TheElementsSong · 21/12/2017 07:10

japancat That was an amazing post and really struck a chord with me.

I hadn’t thought of it as radicalisation, as such, but yes I think you’re on to something there. I’m thinking of that chart from (maybe) the Economist showing that the EU was on nobody’s radar for decades, then was whipped up into a huge issue in the 12 months prior to the referendum. From nothing, to somebody’s prime cause, such that they see fit to demand the rape and murder of MPs, in a couple of years? What else could we call it but radicalisation?

lonelyplanetmum · 21/12/2017 07:30

Yes but as japancat said radicalisation is a kind of discourse of the oppressed

Looking at why things happened and why some ( but only some ) were radicalised is only useful to decide what is to be done about it. Part of the solution has to be trying to solve the source of the oppression which boils down to visible real immediate steps at narrowing the gap between haves and have nots.

BigChocFrenzy · 21/12/2017 07:50

Look at who is really behind the radicalisation ...

Whipping up hate against everything except the main causes of poverty & powerless:

inequality, deliberate smashing of trade union power, forced selling of council homes ....

All of this is the rich getting richer
It is a few billionaire oligarchs who are behind whipping up hate against the centre and left in particular.
They want to continue their greedy pursuit of fleecing the public
They don't want the spotlight to fall on tackling the real causes:
the concentration of wealth in ever fewer hands
and the ever-increasing pandering to the rich at the expense of the rest

Those responsible for many of the problems, have successfully managed to divert the blame onto others, by whipping up hate, by sponsoring fascism

BigChocFrenzy · 21/12/2017 07:55

Example: Housing

No, it's not immigrants that are the real problem.
It's the policy of successive govts to pander to developers making more profit and
using public money to buy votes by forcing & subsidising council homes sales at the expense of the poorest

http://www.independent.co.uk/news/uk/politics/council-housing-uk-lowest-level-records-began-a8059371.html

The number of council houses in Britain has now fallen by 69 per cent since Right to Buy was introduced in 1980.
It had risen continuously up to that point.

The number of private renters has doubled in the last 20 years and now stands at 5.4 million.
An increase of 1 million, 23%, since 2010.

The total number of homes built by councils across Britain in 2016 totalled just 1,840

Enough homes to house the population of Oxford have been sold off under Right to Buy since 2012. – 54,581 homes have been sold but just 12,472 built to replace them.

More than 170,000 council homes have been lost since 2010 alone.
Despite promising ‘one-for-one’ replacement, the reality is only one council home has been replaced for every five sold off under the right-to-buy.

Many more council homes are forecast to be privatised as a result of measures in the 2016 Housing and Planning Act,
which forces councils to sell off their most valuable properties and extends the Right to Buy to housing association properties.

http://www.independent.co.uk/news/uk/home-news/kensington-chelsea-housing-developers-grenfell-tower-fire-council-tenants-flats-homes-london-borough-a7971676.html

Developers win planning permission by promising to build the required number of affordable homes, but they can then backtrack by saying it would reduce their profit margin #greedylyingbastards

Housing developers in Kensington and Chelsea have used a legal loophole to dodge their commitment to avoid building 706 social homes in the borough over the last 7 years.
Enough to have housed all the Grenfell survivors and many more.

BigChocFrenzy · 21/12/2017 07:56

But facts are boring and you have to read them.

Much easier just to hate "the other`'
and demonise those boring people on the centre and left who keep raising these awkward facts

QuentinSummers · 21/12/2017 08:07

I still think Cameron will be judged more harshly by history,
I think he should be. I think David Davis should also be judged for essentially fucking up negotiations for 6 months. Unfortunately I think in the long run TM will carry the can, it's always easier to blame the woman for these things.

woman11017 · 21/12/2017 08:11

thecatfromjapan Great post at 04:39. Smile Tacitly, racism 'islamophobia' and ignorance have been fostered for a couple of decades.
It's been escalated, some might say like an act of war, over the past 5.

woman11017 · 21/12/2017 08:14

If there is one place where the bestial realities of current 'islamophobia' is at its most evil, it's Grenfell, where Moslem and Sikh charities seem to be at the forefront of relief and humanity work. And terrorist right wing trolls are accusing them of being the instigators of the tragedy.
This is all happening in our manor.

BigChocFrenzy · 21/12/2017 08:14

Cameron fled, not just to avoid dealing with the mess, but also to try to escape his place in history as the instigator of it all.

He hoped his successor would make enough of a mess to dwarf his own egregious gamble that was only to prevent an internal Tory party civil
(Labour differences of opinion at that time were not important and are still nowhere near as ruinous as those in the Tory Party)

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