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Brexit

A Quiet sad corner

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smashedinductionhob · 14/03/2017 18:50

That's all. Pop over and sit down quietly if you like.

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Smashedinductionhob · 19/03/2017 19:54
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Smashedinductionhob · 19/03/2017 19:55

I have been out talking and doing and even arguing a bit but it is very nice to come back to the corner.

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justkeeponsmiling · 19/03/2017 23:12

Hi all, please may I join you all?

I have half a bottle of Wine I am happy to share!
DH is British. I am German. I came here 17 years ago as a student and felt welcomed with open arms. I have built my whole adult life here. My kids were born here. Now I just don't know what our future holds. Most of the time I manage to bury my head in the sand. But whenever I am forced to think about it all I feel so sad

TwoLeftSocks · 19/03/2017 23:30

You're still very much welcome here as far as I'm concerned justkeeponsmling.

MakemineaGandT · 20/03/2017 08:13

Hello everyone. Very glad to have stumbled across this thread. You are all expressing exactly what I'm feeling. It's a mixture of grief/anxiety/frustration/despair which I can't escape from and don't know what to do to counter. I'm vocal on Twitter, I've joined the LibDems (on the day of Nay's Lancaster House speech which nearly finished me off!) and am getting involved at local level, I write to my MP now and again, and of course I'm going on Saturday's march. However, I just wish there was something more I could DO.

I find it difficult to cope when I see the Leave voters I know in real life just carrying on with life seemingly clueless as to the havoc that is raging (not the extremist Brexiters, but ordinary folk who probably didn't feel that strongly either way but who plumped for Leave). I struggle every day with great worry about what is happening to this country, and yet many others seem to be in blissful ignorance about it all and share stupid irrelevancies on Facebook etc. I have good friends leaving the country because of Brexit. Another friend has lost her business. Other friends are struggling with deep and seemingly irreparable conflict in their families over how they voted.

I try to focus on my family and on diversions (I'm exercising more than ever for example), but I rarely get much of an escape from the mental "processing" of all this that I've been doing for a year now. I've put on half a stone since June from eating (and drinking...) too much.

I sometimes feel this is becoming "depression", but actually I'm very happy about everything else in my life, and when I manage to block out the Brexit stuff I feel perfectly fine. It's good to know you all feel like I do - I'm not alone.

Thanks all for making me feel a little less crazy!

Smashedinductionhob · 20/03/2017 08:37
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Smashedinductionhob · 20/03/2017 08:41
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Smashedinductionhob · 20/03/2017 08:42

Brought up to believe our primary schools teachers when they told us we are safe when everyone is safe, it is a shock to realise how many people never absorbed that message.

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Smashedinductionhob · 20/03/2017 08:49

Makemine,

I experienced similar ten years ago.

We know there is scope to become more effective leaders.

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Smashedinductionhob · 20/03/2017 08:50

Remembered Quotation:

"The list is light. The list is a piece of pure good"

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Smashedinductionhob · 20/03/2017 08:51

Makemine,

We can try to help you channel those feelings more powerfully if that might be useful?

No expertise here, just experience.

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MakemineaGandT · 20/03/2017 11:10

Thanks Smashed v kind and thanks for the tea! Yes I think you're right about channeling feelings.....I try to do that and in doing positive things in my local community - "be the change you want to see" and all that........ It's hard though isn't it, and I worry what sort of working world my children will join. I graduated in '97 and there was such a positive buzz about new opportunities. Now it feels as though we've been taken hostage by people who want to impose on all of us some sort of fake nostalgic idea of what they think Britain should be.

I want MY country back!

Notonyournellly · 20/03/2017 14:12

article 50 is being triggered next week Sad
< huddles up with all the lovely remainers >
See you at the march. It's our country too.

smashedinductionhob · 20/03/2017 15:29
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smashedinductionhob · 20/03/2017 15:31
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smashedinductionhob · 20/03/2017 15:36

"I want to speak directly to the millions of people who did not vote for this outcome, especially young people who may feel that this decision involves somehow pulling up the drawbridge because I think the very opposite is true.

We cannot turn our backs on Europe. We are part of Europe, our children and our grandchildren will continue to have a wonderful future as Europeans, travelling to the continent, understanding the languages and the cultures that make up our common European civilisation, continuing to interact with the peoples of other countries in a way that is open and friendly and outward-looking. And I want to reassure everyone Britain will continue to be a great European power, leading discussions on defence and foreign policy and the work that goes on to make our world safer.

But there is simply no need in the 21st century to be part of a federal government in Brussels that is imitated nowhere else on Earth. It was a noble idea for its time but it is no longer right for this country. It is the essence of our case that young people in this country can look forward to a more secure and more prosperous future, if we take back the democratic control which is the foundation of our economic prosperity. We have a glorious opportunity, to pass our laws and set our taxes entirely according to the needs of the U.K., we can control our borders in a way that is not discriminatory but fair and balanced and take the wind out of the sails of the extremists and those who would play politics with immigration.

Above all we can find our voice in the world again, a voice commensurate with the fifth-biggest economy on earth. Powerful, liberal, humane, an extraordinary force for good in the world. The most precious thing this country has given the world is the idea of parliamentary democracy. Yesterday [Thursday], I believe the British people have spoken up for democracy in Britain and across Europe and we can be proud of the result."

24th June 2016

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Breadwidow · 20/03/2017 15:36

It will probably be impossible but I wonder if there is some way of doing an actual meet up at the march?

Valentine2 · 20/03/2017 15:46

smashed
Just curious to know why did you look at the crack?

Badders123 · 20/03/2017 16:23

I've eaten my own body weight in chocolate
And apple pie today

It hasnt helped
😞

smashedinductionhob · 20/03/2017 17:37

Valentine,

The induction hob suddenly seemed like a metaphor....

but then I got over myself :)

I think I was having an Adrian Mole metaphor moment

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SummerLightning · 20/03/2017 17:51

smashed do you have any plans to fix the hob?

Next thing you'll be talking about your tap that drippeth or something Grin

Ah, Adrian Mole.

smashedinductionhob · 20/03/2017 17:53

We are all Adrian...

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smashedinductionhob · 20/03/2017 17:53

....except my supercool 14 year old who didn't get it (he is far too well-balanced by half that boy).

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smashedinductionhob · 20/03/2017 17:54

I plan to wait until the insurance company say it is too late to claim.

And then pay full price for another one.

I have put a stone on the crack.

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smashedinductionhob · 20/03/2017 17:55
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