For me, (yes a leave so take whatever from that), its not so much a question of mulling over the psychology of it, rather than the hell bent desire to continue the sweeping pidgeon holeing. Yesterday, a full week after the vote, the newsnight panel consisted totally of remain voters (including a union rep theyd managed to find who voted remain). One guest even repeated the words "all racists voted leave".
The issue with the aftermath, in my view, is that it is more important to reinforce the view that, remainers are nice, forward thinking, intelligent etc where leavers are the black heart we are ashamed of.
It is now MORE important to be seen to have voted remain because, no racists voted remain, all remain voters were well informed and intelligent, and well really, were just all round nice people.
If the telegraph are to be believed 42% of AB's voted leave. 58% Remain. From personal experience, Id agree with that stat. A lot of money has been made in the EU. Sure, as you then come down the 'classes' (what is britain without class/elitism?) the balance clearly swung the other way, but youre on a very fine line when there is a refusal to listen to EITHER side, due to the sweeping generalisms attached to the leave/remain vote. Id guess only remain voters are wearing safetypins at the moment?
As long as this message continues, sides will only continue to become deeper and deeper entrenched, and certainly, Teresa May wont become PM. The nation is divided but not in the convenient pidgeon holes both sides would wish.