OP, excellent thread - if I was observing all this from the outside (preferably another planet) it would be really fascinating.
I was disappointed by the result, angry and bereft at what has been taken from me and my children. But at the same time, because it’s not all about me: I hope with all my heart that my fears for the future are wrong and the Leave voters are right, with their easy optimism for a bright future for (whatever is left of) the UK.
But there are some things that I think I will never get over, and that is what this referendum has exposed of the craven ugliness that I must conclude lurks in the depths of perhaps all people
. Do I exaggerate? I don’t know.
On these boards, I have seen people being vehemently ageist, people who directly accusing expert academics who disagree with them of corruption (then scuttling away), people shouting at others to shut up because Democracy then demanding the same to provide their ideas and efforts to move forward, people on both sides wishing others ill-luck with such bitterness, people who accuse those who have lost their jobs of making it all up, people who accuse those who have reported racism of lying (or making an excessive fuss because, hey, they weren't murdered
), people who believe that being even indirectly associated with racism is exactly as hurtful as actually experiencing racism, people who have told those who are feeling sad and unwelcome and whose lives are directly affected to get a fucking grip, people who have told those who are thinking of leaving because of the previous to fuck off to and don’t let the door hit them… there are plenty more examples which posters on either side of the debate can fill in. That’s without the real horrible things going on in real life because of this referendum - job losses, racial abuse, families and friends at each other’s throats, an MP murdered for god’s sake.
And the saddest thing? People so entrenched in their positions that they fail to call out others for doing any of the above however despicable, either cheering them on or mysteriously all disappearing from a thread at the same time
. I tell myself that the vast majority of humans are good, decent and kind. But my faith in humanity has been really shaken these past few weeks.
I’m trained as a scientist, and part of that is trying to be aware of one’s own bias. So in reading the debates on here (and elsewhere), I have tried (however badly) to get what the “other side” are talking about. But in all honesty I’m finding some of the post hoc justifications of Leavers baffling, contradictory and frankly, just plain deluded. Shoot me.