A long time ago, I knew someone who confided in me that he had a thing for pretending to be a baby and wearing nappies. He thought it was a rare but acceptable fetish - just embarrassing.
Needless to say, I didn't see it the same way and we are no longer in touch.
Today I discovered he is now the father of a little one.
I feel very conflicted. Does his partner know about his paraphilia? Has he sought therapy to address it?
If my partner was sexually attracted to infancy, nurseries, baby things, etc. -- I would want to know about that, ideally, before we had a child together. Wouldn't you?
Mumsnetters, what would you do in this situation?
Ethical dilemmas
"Adult baby" has a baby now - WWYD?
QuokkaInSpace · 06/10/2023 06:42
QuokkaInSpace · 06/10/2023 08:13
For more information, for those who might be confused, he is an "AB/DL". He wanted to be treated like a baby, had fantasies about being a baby and being sexually abused, and would break into nurseries and steal nappies for masturbation.
And yes, there are cases of overlap between paraphilic infantilism, diaperism, and pedophilia. A man can start with one and over time seek new, more egregious stimuli.
The concern is safeguarding.
WellIdontknowwhattocallmyself · 18/10/2023 00:49
The thing you’re describing isn’t a fetish
its age regression which is a therapy for trauma
stop making this something it’s not so you can judge these vulnerable people
EasterFlower · 18/10/2023 03:46
When this person was breaking into nurseries for nappies (what was wrong with the ones you can buy in the supermarket, by the way?) did you report his crimes to the police OP?
WellIdontknowwhattocallmyself · 18/10/2023 00:49
The thing you’re describing isn’t a fetish
its age regression which is a therapy for trauma
stop making this something it’s not so you can judge these vulnerable people
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QuokkaInSpace · 06/10/2023 08:13
For more information, for those who might be confused, he is an "AB/DL". He wanted to be treated like a baby, had fantasies about being a baby and being sexually abused, and would break into nurseries and steal nappies for masturbation.
And yes, there are cases of overlap between paraphilic infantilism, diaperism, and pedophilia. A man can start with one and over time seek new, more egregious stimuli.
The concern is safeguarding.
lesserspotted · 18/10/2023 04:56
how can you break into nurseries to steal nappies? What makes you think he does this - that sounds highly unlikely
NotesApp · 18/10/2023 02:05
would break into nurseries and steal nappies for masturbation.
Quite the drip.
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