We are probably in a situation familiar with a lot of people here with frail parent (fil) as well as teenage children and jobs.
the question is how far do you go to support the elderly parent given traditionalism have to make large sacrifices at home? Do people get to a stage of costing a very crisp immobile parent so often that family life becomes increasingly strained but from an emotional level feel little choice? Do people give up employment to look after the elderly and is there a societal expectation that children especially women should become essentially full time carers?
How do you go about making decisions about how to organise your lives with change?