I’m not so sure this really is an Aibu but I really didn’t know where else to post!
We have been caring for my mum at home for that last 2 years and we’re now at the point where everything is becoming more difficult. Her mobility is awful, continence issues, cognitive decline and she can not do any self care now at all. My dad is also
poorly and in need of care but nothing like my mum needs.
I know for her own safety and all round well being she needs more care than we can give but it still feels awful.
It’s exhausting and my emotions are all over the place.
Elderly parents
To feel so bad about putting mum in care home
Hungrymonk82 · 26/04/2022 20:59
Am I being unreasonable?
22 votes. Final results.
POLLreadsalotgirl63 · 26/04/2022 21:24
Definitely find the Elderly Parents area of Mumsnet - it was a lifesaver for me when dealing with my beloved mum. Think if you look under all Talk topics and then "other stuff" it's there.
Do understand how you feel but remember you are doing what's best for your mum.
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