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I have lymphedema of left leg and foot so slipper wise for example back 5 years ago i liked slip ons, then on advice of physio and ot before lymphedema came into my life, i went to a closed fitted slipper as it was less of a fall risk and now they are all too tight so i need to wear a moccassian type slipper which is still closed in but looser
I do my own footcare as far as possible and have approx 1 ingrown toenail a year (always big toes and alternative years lol).
I have spent months a couple of years ago in a nursing home despite the fact i am now only 42, i have had 5 stays when needed the longest being 4+ months. In fact this week due to the severe snow and lack of carers being able to get in they were trying to place me in respite again but couldnt get a bed.
I am also a wheelchair user and 95% housebound/ 60% bedbound, when i want to buy a pair of shoes for an occassion for example to go with an outfit, im also a wide foot, 8ee sometimes a 9
i actually purchased a shoe fitting measurement thingy and work out nearest from that, if left foot is a bigger size than needed previously i go by that size and cotton wool goes in the top of the other shoe as it will only be for a couple of steps from chair to a loo transfer that i wont be walking in them anyhow. I also have collapsing weakness when i try to stand.
I do nail varnish on my toenails as often as possible to retain my sense of being female as while at times i have to be washed, changed, fed etc by someone else im holding onto what i can when i can.
@Beehivesandhoney Im in NI, the nursing home i was in the last 2 times was a private one but the other 3 times was part of a chain, all funded by ss but i had to contribute dla care equilivant per week even when money had stopped (dont get me started on that)
the long term residents who were fully funded from ss got an allowance of i think it was 25-30 per week to get essentials,
families were welcome of course to add anything else extra they wanted, i recall one lady who i heard making her list out of what she wanted from where when the activities worker was going into the local town to do some shopping.
For any hard skin that does build up, i tend to soak my feet in a basin of hot water as hot as i can stand with a couple of caps of listerine and a scoop of epsom salts, 30 mins later it just falls off.
I need to plunge my feet into hot water for other reasons anyhow to draw blood to feet so i multi task.
I prob should add that at the first sign of a chiropody problem it will be spotted for me as one of my carers, they work in 2s and come in 4 visits a day is actually a qualified chiropodist but no work locally and cant afford to set up on her own, she is only just back p/t after mat leave so is doing care work as suits her better for now. I know that luck and she is happy she said to point out a problem if she sees it but if i have to see a chiropodist, it wont be her as would compromise her current job.
Socks - yes, maybe some colours you dont have to have them in hand but able to get easily for stock if you get orders or patterns,
Ex 3 days into my last nursing home stay, i had been moved after almost 4 weeks in hospital my friend sent me a lovely pair of socks with my name on tags inside both socks, the socks were still on the cardboard thingy. (see my powers of description), They were cat design socks as she knew i was missing my cat who had gone missing a week before i ended up in hospital.
After wearing for a day with all my other smalls (socks, pants x multi pairs in a zipped laundry bag) with my name tape stiched on it and my other washing went down as a load to the laundry,
The next day i saw cat socks on elderly lady who when i asked her nicely did she get new socks she told me her daughter brought them in to her that morning, my name tags still in place lol, i let her hold onto them as she was so happy her daughter came to visit as the ratbag never normally visited, that would be because she didnt have a daughter ...
So name tags, laundry bags the zipped ones with space for names on them and a way to secure in machines,
Black socks as easy for all, esp men and they go easy in the zipper bags
sock putter ons device / long/short shoe horns attached to other
as an option for those who want to try and do indenpently - an ot might provide to someone but provide not if they are in a nursing home but may like to take back some independence for themselves, its usually quicker in nursing homes to do it for the person
Also diabetic socks so the elastics dont cut circulation off like some normal ones do
Bed socks - furry on the inside, if someone is in bed and cant move around properly the heat goes out of extremeties fast and bed socks do help, not glamerous but some things arent
If i can help with anything else, message me