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Daughter unable to attend her graduation as no tickets left (second thread)

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mildlyfried · 21/06/2026 10:10

My daughter cannot attend her graduation as major Uni only offers tickets on a 'first come first served' basis. We are very upset and think the Uni should have ensured there were enough ceremonies/capacity for every graduate. This is the second thread.

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Anewappa · 25/06/2026 18:15

iceberg52 · 25/06/2026 18:03

In my experience of uni's (not this one) they don't repeatedly email, maybe 3 emails, so perhaps this uni is different.

Yes, there are unfair systems, but it doesn't mean we just have to accept them being unfair. Complain about them and attempt to have the unfair system altered to a fairer one by being vocal about it. That is what the OP is doing here, having missed out. Unfortunately, I doubt her child will get a place now, but I don't blame the OP for being upset and posting on here about it. First come first served at this uni should end, there are fairer and more inclusive ways to organise their graduation ceremonies going forward. The ceremonies should work/be organised around the student cohort numbers, not the other way round.

3 emails is repeatedly

Anewappa · 25/06/2026 18:17

FunCrab · 25/06/2026 18:14

I have never heard anything like this.
you daughter has paid huge fees and they are happy to take fees of her and now no graduation.
Why don’t you try to raise this through media outlets such as Guardian or other such outlet. I think they would be interested.
Universities need public behind them more than ever before.
All students so look forward to this as their right of passage from University.
Please do something - a new low for Universities.

What is the story?

Adult didn’t respond to invite promptly despite said invite being crystal clear re the process and the alternative date? Whereas said adult’s friends all did read the invite and responded accordingly.

iceberg52 · 25/06/2026 19:46

Anewappa · 25/06/2026 18:15

3 emails is repeatedly

3 emails in total, just one to say register your interest, second to say registered and a third to confirm the place. The first stage was only one email, not repeated emails going over the same thing.

Anewappa · 25/06/2026 19:57

iceberg52 · 25/06/2026 19:46

3 emails in total, just one to say register your interest, second to say registered and a third to confirm the place. The first stage was only one email, not repeated emails going over the same thing.

yes because your child accepted!!

I am talking about repeated reminders to those that had NOT responded

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Thatsquark · 02/07/2026 10:09

My niece Lancaster.
missed out on first allocation due to same reason as your dd but she’s just got allocation on the waiting list

did your dd get the same @mildlyfried ?

mildlyfried · 02/07/2026 17:24

@Thatsquark thank you. That is good to hear. No we are still waiting. The results are out on 9th July which may change things. Fingers crossed.

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Werhere · 12/07/2026 06:22

mildlyfried · 02/07/2026 17:24

@Thatsquark thank you. That is good to hear. No we are still waiting. The results are out on 9th July which may change things. Fingers crossed.

My neighbour’s son got tickets on the wait list. She is over the moon!

Did you score any @mildlyfried ? She said that the university definitely didn’t add extra.

Scotiasdarling · 12/07/2026 08:12

They obviously could have graduated with their friends, either by OP's daughter getting her act together or the whole group opting for the November date. One of my children graduated from their Oxford college with their whole year group by opting for a graduation in May the following year.

mildlyfried · 12/07/2026 15:01

Werhere · 12/07/2026 06:22

My neighbour’s son got tickets on the wait list. She is over the moon!

Did you score any @mildlyfried ? She said that the university definitely didn’t add extra.

Yes, thank you we got tickets

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Harrietsaunt · 12/07/2026 15:05

Christ this barely warranted the first thread, never mind a second…

RampantIvy · 12/07/2026 20:30

mildlyfried · 12/07/2026 15:01

Yes, thank you we got tickets

Great news. I would say enjoy but, TBH, graduations are pretty dull.

Werhere · 12/07/2026 21:59

mildlyfried · 12/07/2026 15:01

Yes, thank you we got tickets

And on the same day as her housemates?

mildlyfried · 12/07/2026 22:06

Werhere · 12/07/2026 21:59

And on the same day as her housemates?

yes

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Werhere · 12/07/2026 22:12

And no extra ceremony?

so all fine in the end!

Sweetpeasaremadeforbees · 13/07/2026 08:55

So Lancaster university isn't the spawn of the devil after all.

mildlyfried · 13/07/2026 14:20

You don't know anything about it

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Stillso · 13/07/2026 19:17

mildlyfried · 13/07/2026 14:20

You don't know anything about it

You did seem to give the impression on your last thread and this thread that you did very much think this about the university.

however a distant memory now i suppose with tickets in hand. Enjoy! Loads say it’s not enjoyable, well I loved it

XelaM · 13/07/2026 21:16

Enjoy the graduation OP! So glad it worked out 🙂

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