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School bullying and teacher lies and bullying to parent

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Apol1710 · 19/11/2025 12:17

Hello, does anyone have any advice for me please. My eldest son was bullied in primary school by a large group of children. These children lied when question by the teachers and blamed my son, my son and I were then targeted by the teachers and bullied. My son had numerous days off in primary school due to being anxious about the bullying and nothing was done. How can one child bully a large group of children, miss numerous days off due to anxiety yet not be believed at all?! The same thing is now happening again in high school due to the primary schools false biased reports about my son. He is being accused by one of the same children and a support worker as slapping a child when he did not do this and his friends are witnesses. I have sent emails which I don’t get a reply from. The lrimary school actually informed the police about my emails yet I wasnt visited, (yet) I feel I am being bullied. The head of primary has cried infront of me many times and told me she always cries. That’s nothing to do with me. I have all my emails as proof and they are very clear that I am trying to protect my son from bullying, this included comments about his appearance , calling him stupid, threats of violence from the child who lied about my son slapping him. How can no one believe my son who is absolutely not violent at all against a child who is experienced in karate, who is threatening to knock my child’s teeth out?! A teacher in primary school wished my son to be “poisoned” and this was covered up. The same things seem to be unravelling in high school because of the biased reports of primary school. They are trying to make out my sons is struggling with mental health (he isn’t, he’s very happy) because he’s being bullied and threatened…. This is purely the only thing that affects him. They try to silence me by making me out to be “difficult “ and I am not going to stop until the bullying stops.

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popcornandpotatoes · 20/11/2025 12:59

JinglingtoChristmas · 20/11/2025 12:30

Your writing comminication here is very unclear so I can how a school may misunderstand your intent.

Contact the police and council of an issue in school is inappropriate and it’s going to solve the issue. Is there some one in real life who can help you work through your issues with the school?

Yes I am lost tbh. If your child is now in secondary and still being bullied, why are you still going on about the primary school? He's not there anymore

Hercisback1 · 20/11/2025 14:12

Your posts on here are threatening and not very nice. I can see if you used a similar tone, why complaints may have been made.

LittleCutiePie74 · 20/11/2025 14:33

I don't think your posts on here come over as 'threatening', OP. I think you sound desperate.

'A teacher in primary school wished my son to be “poisoned” and this was covered up.'

I think it might help if you could explain this comment. What happened, what was said?

If you haven't had a visit from the police, it sounds as though they are not concerned that you are any kind of threat to the local community and correctly interpreted your use of the word 'strong'.

Have you thought about contacting your local authority about this?

I know one parent locally who moved her child from one infants school to another one because her daughter was being bullied and the school did nothing.

There are 2 secondary schools in the town I live. I know quite a few parents who moved their children from one local secondary to the other because the school did nothing about the bullying their child was experiencing.

Your frustration is obvious and I hope you can move forward once your younger son moves up to the next school.

So, no, it is not beyond the realms of possibility; this does happen.

Parker231 · 20/11/2025 14:35

Apol1710 · 19/11/2025 14:51

What does joined ranks mean? The new school seem to be following suit of what primary did. Due to their lies. My youngest is at the same primary school and doesn’t want to be there, I submitted a transfer and it was rejected by the school. He has cried at school multiple times as he doesn’t like it there…. They seem to think he’s crying because wig something else. It’s disgraceful

Have you reported this to the police and followed the school complaint process?

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