I definitely agree with @flawlessflipper . That dyslexia assessment is not striking, but your description of your DD's needs is. That's not to say that there's no needs highlighted, but it does suggest that it's not the whole story.
@flawlessflipper is incredibly knowledgeable about the EHCP processes but I just wanted to break it down a bit for you because you're right at the beginning.
First step: Requesting an Education Health and Care Needs Assessment (EHCNA). As flawless says, LAs love to make complicated criteria - hoops to jump through. But there are only 2 criteria in law:
- has or may have SEN
- may need special educational provision to be made via an EHCP
That's it. May. Not definitely does.
The application for a needs assessment can be made by the school, or by you. I prefer the 'you' because then you get to decide what evidence to include, and what gets said, and when it gets said. The school should be able to help you with information about your DD's progress, but if they are reluctant, or say it's too early, etc., you can put in a Subject Access Request and that will give you all the information, including any emails where they've discussed your child. That can be helpful - I had emails saying 'DD2 can be taken off SEN support, right?' and the reply of 'oh no... Need to keep that one on!'
Once the EHCNA request goes in, the LA has 6 weeks to make a decision about whether they agree to make an assessment of your DD's needs. They send a decision letter. If they refuse to assess, you can appeal that decision.
If they go ahead with assessment, they must commission an Educational Psychology assessment, and they must ask for your contribution of views, and they must ask the school for their views. There is a vague entry on the list of people they must ask that is "anyone that the parent reasonably requests". This is your opportunity to request SALT and OT assessments. The LA is likely to say that they need to be accessed via the NHS. Two problems with that - waiting lists, and most NHS OT services aren't commissioned for sensory integration. You can say that as the waiting lists are so long and the EHCNA process is governed by strict timelines, they will need to get assessments independently of the NHS.
It's really important the the Ed Psych gets a really clear understanding of the difficulties you're DD is experiencing, so don't hold back. If she comes home absolutely exhausted from school and has tantrums/meltdowns or is shut down and withdrawn, tell them. They need to see the whole picture. If your DD struggles with group work, make sure they know. If your DD struggles with the class size, make sure they know.
EPs do a range of assessments and some seem quite silly. DD2 was asked to colour code a map of her school with 'green' (fine), 'amber' (ok) and 'red' (not ok). I thought it was a bit of a daft exercise - she wasn't attending due to EBSA. It was really profound though. She circled the entire school in red. Annotated reach bit with 'too busy', 'too noisy', 'might see teacher x', etc. Then there was a single green dot on the road outside the school with 'I'm going home so I'm ok'. After a couple of failed placements she is now in a independent special school that gives a bespoke timetable and 1:1 support at all times, with each student being taught individually.
Once the reports are done, each report will make recommendations about the provision your DD needs.
If the provision detailed in the reports is reasonably expected to be made from every day resources of a typical school, the EHCNA result will be that she doesn't need an EHCP. Examples might be targeted teaching, word banks, extra reading sessions, 1:1 targeted sessions for reading/writing/spelling/maths. That would all be expected within universal and targeted provision. However, if the provision recommended exceeds that typically expected in a mainstream school, she will need an EHCP.
The EHCP will only provide for provision that is specifically recommended by professional reports, which is why it's so important that you get accurate and comprehensive reports.
Once the EHCP is drafted, it will be sent to you and you will have 15 days to make comments and name a preference for a setting.
Naming a setting
Any setting has to be able to meet the needs of your child as listed on the EHCP. Each setting the LA consults with will be sent the EHCP and they'll be asked if they can meet needs. You can ask the LA to consult with a range of settings.
You can ask them to consult with a private school. However, it is likely that if a mainstream state school says they can meet needs, the LA will say that your preferred private school is 'an inefficient use of resources'. In other words, there is a cheaper school that can meet needs. Bear in mind location and transport costs, though. If the school that the LA prefers is over 2 miles (primary) or 3 miles (secondary) away, the LA must pay for transport, and that can be factored in to the overall cost.
Ultimately, your first step is making sure that the EHCNA request is thorough and timely. Go from there.