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If you’re charged VAT will you remove your child from their private school? I’m v stressed!

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Liikklu · 27/05/2024 18:05

We won’t be able to pay the increase. Only hope is asking grandparents for the shortfall which we don’t want to do. Anyone else in a similar boat? Do you think it will literally be a 20% increase on fees or will schools absorb some of it? Our school has said they will address the matter ‘if and when’ it applies.

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whistleblower99 · 28/05/2024 10:50

Janedoe82 · 28/05/2024 10:49

What like you are doing yourself? 🙄

I am working today. On a tea break. Someone has got to pay the tax. Thankfully, it means I won’t be sat on MN all day tearing people down. Then when I spend tomorrow with my children - I’ll have my wages to spend on a nice day out.

InterIgnis · 28/05/2024 10:51

Einwegflasche · 28/05/2024 10:37

You're in the running for an award too.

Excellent. Let me know if I win and I’ll tell you where to send the award.

Razorwire · 28/05/2024 10:51

Living in an urban area, just within catchment for a good state school, it’s possible that an increase in VAT makes the catchment smaller as more families closer to school choose state education. and the
Then options for families in my area are the poorly performing schools (which would make me want to chose private if could afford). Poorly performing IMO because of the parents and the way they live. Parent engagement is impt to school success.
How is this VAT good news? Putting more funding into state school isn’t going to change the demographics of the parents who don’t give a shut. Shitty parents -> shitty schools.

Sherrystrull · 28/05/2024 10:52

@whistleblower99

You're complaining about others tearing people down whilst doing it yourself. Ironic.

WindsurfingDreams · 28/05/2024 10:53

whistleblower99 · 28/05/2024 10:50

I am working today. On a tea break. Someone has got to pay the tax. Thankfully, it means I won’t be sat on MN all day tearing people down. Then when I spend tomorrow with my children - I’ll have my wages to spend on a nice day out.

Ah that old chestnut

"I am on a tea break"

Whereas

"You are feckless unemployed and neglecting your children"

InterIgnis · 28/05/2024 10:53

Einwegflasche · 28/05/2024 10:43

OP posted in AIBU, hence the variety of replies.
I can sympathise with OP, up to a point, but the bigger picture of her privilege is also relevant.
It's possible to have compassion and a realistic approach.

No, that is ‘the bigger picture’ to you, and as such you’re trying to turn someone else’s thread into what you think it should be about.

Floatingvoternolandinsight · 28/05/2024 10:53

Ireallywantadoughnut36 · 28/05/2024 10:22

I have, we have one for my son! It's gonna be less than £8k a term! A 121 hourly session once a week costs us about £160 a month and supplements the state schooling for him. Its an option if its purely the academics that concern OP

Is that for GCSE? That is a bargain I can tell you from discussions with other people lucky you can often double that these days. An effective tutor will generally have a waiting list too long for most people needing them and will be able to charge a very high hourly rate. Several of the neighborhood kids were charging £50 an hour about 5 years ago whilst they were undergraduates on competitive degrees at competitive universities. Think Oxbridge and the Golden Triangle. Dc2 is 1st year undergrad Stem Degree (state educated (painful experience) Redbrick Uni not Oxbridge or Golden Triangle) and has been approached to do tutoring by different companies. We had a look to see what they were being charged out at. Crazy prices!

SapphireSlippers · 28/05/2024 10:53

Redlarge · 27/05/2024 18:35

Do you pay vat on uni fees?

Uni isn't a preserve of the rich though. Plenty of children go to uni, who couldn't go to private school.

Annabel28 · 28/05/2024 10:54

I'm getting quite tired of some of these threads - at the end of the day your views are going to be heavily dictated by (a) whether or not your family is currently choosing to pay private school fees and (b) the extent to which you care about social inequality and (c) if you do care about social mobility/equality whether or not you think this policy will make a difference.

We live in a democracy - if you don't like this policy, don't vote labour. If labour gets in, that is what the nation has decided so in the name of democracy you need to accept it. I didn't vote for the last 14 years of shambolic Tory governments that have certainly left me worse off. I didn't vote for Brexit. I didn't vote to have our mortgage go up by £600/month last year.

I went to one of the most expensive private schools in the country (current fees around £40 K a year). Most of the people in my year group, IMO, were not very bright at all but were given a huge leg up and contacts to get good jobs/salaries later on (or at least they had the social contacts to marry very wealthy ex-Etonians). For what it's worth I do think it would be a good thing if people from wealthier backgrounds were absorbed into the state sector. In the background I came from, I don't think parents were paying out money just for "education", they were paying to avoid having to mix with people from lower social classes. I am not saying this is true for every parent, in particular I feel for parents of children with SEN, but the social divisiveness that private schools create is not in line with my political and personal values. Sadly I don't think this policy will achieve much in terms of social mobility, schools like my old one have enough financial reserve to absorb the costs themselves.

I agree with one former poster about people not understanding that there are families, like mine, that have a decent disposable income (household income > £200 K), certainly do not live in the catchment area of a "good" secondary school but choose to use that school anyway because we don't agree politically with the notion of private education and want our children to experience mixing with students from a wide range of backgrounds - that is educational in itself.

That said, if your main value in life is trying to give your kids the very best in education, then who am I to judge? It's just different life choices. But at the end of the day this does boil down to democracy and on-going squabbling on these boards isn't going to change much.

anotherside · 28/05/2024 10:54

80smonster · 28/05/2024 10:44

Ofsted is about ‘distance travelled’ not academic performance. This means a school that has been underperforming for a long time, which is slightly turned around, or one with many students from poor socioeconomic backgrounds, will be seen as outstanding by its own merit. The view is the school is doing a good job, based on its resources and human capital. This means that many good schools, in areas where there is a concentration of students from wealthy backgrounds, are only good by their own merit. This is purposefully confusing so that the rebranding of underperforming academy’s (sold out from local authorities by the Labour party) can be seen as positive. Beware the ofsted outstanding academy is a London parents mantra! I note Starmer’s kids attended London Oratory, one of the best state schools in the country. Located in Kensington & Chelsea, the wealthiest Borough in England.

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Good for him and his kids. Nothing to stop those whining about luxury service providers being made to pay VAT from doing the same - ie move to a posh area with well to do parents and well behaved kids - that is afterall what private schools are all about - minus the small class sizes. For the overwhelming majority of private school pupils, their parents are in the top 10% of earners. You’re free to move or not move. You’re free to purchase a luxury service or make do with the normal one. But it’s absolutely right that private schools should be made to pay VAT. Hopefully they will easily absorb the costs themselves - something state schools are unable to do.

Clavinova · 28/05/2024 10:54

cantkeepawayforever · 28/05/2024 10:40

Yes, which was why I went to a source of objective data looking at the actual FSM/ SEN / EAL statistics.

What was the data in 2013? Did you see the architect designed science lab built in 2018? How many one-form entry primary schools have their own purpose built science lab?

Didn't you buy an expensive house in the catchment of a super selective grammar school and an outstanding comprehensive school? I know you've name changed but I think I recognise you.

whistleblower99 · 28/05/2024 10:55

WindsurfingDreams · 28/05/2024 10:53

Ah that old chestnut

"I am on a tea break"

Whereas

"You are feckless unemployed and neglecting your children"

You said it not me…

Otherstories2002 · 28/05/2024 10:55

OvalLemon · 28/05/2024 10:34

Same here I’ll have to cross that bridge when we come to it. I actually think they should subsidise private schools like they do in other countries to make it more affordable. At least then more people have a choice. But it comes down to a culture war on here.. Not sure why everybody on here thinks the local state school is always good fit for their child!

And who is paying for those subsidies..?

Elizo · 28/05/2024 10:56

Good for you. Now you’ll have to pay VAT for the privilege and that money will be used to support all children, not just yours

RespiceFinemKarma · 28/05/2024 10:57

SapphireSlippers · 28/05/2024 10:53

Uni isn't a preserve of the rich though. Plenty of children go to uni, who couldn't go to private school.

I think we really do need clarity on this "the rich"
If you think Starmer isn't fleecing the state system and richer than a large chunk of people who pay for private school, then you are delulu.

He is hoarding his wealth and pretending to care about the little guy whilst ensuring his kids get the very best without spending a penny. So many people thinking he is going to revolutionise education, on what basis? Rich people in London can continue to use tax of others to ensure Oxbridge? Well, what a relief!

Tiredalwaystired · 28/05/2024 10:57

Thegreatergoodgerald · 27/05/2024 18:42

Listen if a school is ‘closing’ because of a policy that may or may not come in, from a party who may or may not win an election- then the people running that school are full of shit.
That school will have already been earmarked for closing but this is a nice excuse to lay the blame somewhere else rather than on the institution who haven’t been able to make it financial viable to keep this BUSINESS open. It’s what happens.

or, and perhaps I’m being too cynical, the people of FB are telling porkies for effect and scaremongering.
IF a private school closes parents can A) find another one - I hear there will be lots of places free soon
B) use normal schools like everyone else - also lots of room due to the falling birth rate.

i dont have any skin in the private education debate as my kids are at a wonderful state comp and I never would have dreamed of choosing private over that. However, regarding your comment about the falling birth rate, it’s a fair comment for those with under fives but for the kids who are already in schools there have been bulge classes for those currently at secondary level and they’re the ones that may need to be rehoused as such. I think it’s fair that parents should be concerned as the decent state schools are likely already oversubscribed so it will be less popular schools that have spaces for their children. But on the other hand all businesses have to work within economic boundaries and have to cut their cloth accordingly. It’s sort of the risk you take to try and get a leap on the system that is offered to you for “free”.

Throwaway1234567890000000 · 28/05/2024 10:58

To answer your question - no we will not remove or even have to consider moving our children if VAT comes into play (which it will, it just depends how much is passed through).

Friends have mentioned they may have to consider it.

In your position I would absolutely ask grandparents to help. What everyone beating the drum of privilege is forgetting is that these privately educated children are not mini monsters forged from the blood, sweat and tears of the poor. They are CHILDREN. They know what they know, they are presumably settled in schools that they love and where they feel safe. I can say categorically that my parents would spend every last penny on ensuring their grandchildren did not have to move from their schools because they love their grandchildren and want what’s best for them - and as a family we are very much in agreement that that is private education. My parents would be heartbroken if this was us and we didn’t go to them for help (if they were able to give it). Even if they weren’t able to make up the entire shortfall, or any of it, they’d be devastated to not be involved in the conversations because they care about their grandchildren.

At the heart of all this are children’s lives. It’s not a child’s fault if they’re born into relative privilege or abject poverty. The way these situations are discussed on here and the venom in so many responses truly sickens me.

I cannot imagine being faced with having to tell my child that they are leaving all of their friends and moving somewhere else against their and our will. Have a bit of compassion instead of raging against the capitalist machine. And FYI - those struggling are most certainly not the super rich that this headline chaser of a ridiculously ill thought out policy was aimed at. And they never would have been. It’s just the stretched middle becoming even more stretched.

WindsurfingDreams · 28/05/2024 10:59

Floatingvoternolandinsight · 28/05/2024 10:53

Is that for GCSE? That is a bargain I can tell you from discussions with other people lucky you can often double that these days. An effective tutor will generally have a waiting list too long for most people needing them and will be able to charge a very high hourly rate. Several of the neighborhood kids were charging £50 an hour about 5 years ago whilst they were undergraduates on competitive degrees at competitive universities. Think Oxbridge and the Golden Triangle. Dc2 is 1st year undergrad Stem Degree (state educated (painful experience) Redbrick Uni not Oxbridge or Golden Triangle) and has been approached to do tutoring by different companies. We had a look to see what they were being charged out at. Crazy prices!

Ds has an excellent tutor (also head of science at his school) and we pay about same amount as @Ireallywantadoughnut36 . Maybe he just isn't greedy in terms of what he charges. He does have a long waiting list.

I can't imagine paying a fortune for a university student (however bright) to do the tutoring . I got a first from Oxford but it didn't mean I was automatically a great tutor.

HeraSyndulla · 28/05/2024 10:59

My 16 daughter was in private school but is currently studying for her "A" levels at the local college. This was her choice. But, if she had elected to stay at school I would have paid the increase. No question.

Pearlinda · 28/05/2024 10:59

Thegreatergoodgerald · 27/05/2024 18:28

Presumably the grandparents are wealthy? I’d be absolutely mortified to be tapping my parents up for money for anything, let alone a luxury.

I don’t agree it’s a luxury at this stage…she just doesn’t want to uproot her children and move them to a new school. This is a necessity.

I teach in a state school by the way and have absolutely zero intention of sending my child to a private school. I do think this policy isn’t a great one and is putting more on the already squeezed middle.

Ask the grandparents.

nearlylovemyusername · 28/05/2024 11:00

Einwegflasche · 28/05/2024 10:42

The reality is that some SEN parents will never be able to access private school - SEN provision is atrocious in many schools, from the perspective of the SEN pupils, other pupils, staff, SEN parents and other parents.

so let's remove this option from those parents who still currently can?

Floatingvoternolandinsight · 28/05/2024 11:00

Annabel28 · 28/05/2024 10:54

I'm getting quite tired of some of these threads - at the end of the day your views are going to be heavily dictated by (a) whether or not your family is currently choosing to pay private school fees and (b) the extent to which you care about social inequality and (c) if you do care about social mobility/equality whether or not you think this policy will make a difference.

We live in a democracy - if you don't like this policy, don't vote labour. If labour gets in, that is what the nation has decided so in the name of democracy you need to accept it. I didn't vote for the last 14 years of shambolic Tory governments that have certainly left me worse off. I didn't vote for Brexit. I didn't vote to have our mortgage go up by £600/month last year.

I went to one of the most expensive private schools in the country (current fees around £40 K a year). Most of the people in my year group, IMO, were not very bright at all but were given a huge leg up and contacts to get good jobs/salaries later on (or at least they had the social contacts to marry very wealthy ex-Etonians). For what it's worth I do think it would be a good thing if people from wealthier backgrounds were absorbed into the state sector. In the background I came from, I don't think parents were paying out money just for "education", they were paying to avoid having to mix with people from lower social classes. I am not saying this is true for every parent, in particular I feel for parents of children with SEN, but the social divisiveness that private schools create is not in line with my political and personal values. Sadly I don't think this policy will achieve much in terms of social mobility, schools like my old one have enough financial reserve to absorb the costs themselves.

I agree with one former poster about people not understanding that there are families, like mine, that have a decent disposable income (household income > £200 K), certainly do not live in the catchment area of a "good" secondary school but choose to use that school anyway because we don't agree politically with the notion of private education and want our children to experience mixing with students from a wide range of backgrounds - that is educational in itself.

That said, if your main value in life is trying to give your kids the very best in education, then who am I to judge? It's just different life choices. But at the end of the day this does boil down to democracy and on-going squabbling on these boards isn't going to change much.

Definitely group C. I don't think it will touch the sides.

ThereAreNoSloesOnThere · 28/05/2024 11:01

Another76543 · 28/05/2024 10:35

20% of pupils are on a bursary at our school. That figure is not unusual.

Ive just looked at our school's stats. (Small independent school) We have 13% on bursaries. And 32% of the total student population have SEN of some sort. My older one is one of them.

SofaThrow · 28/05/2024 11:04

It’s just the stretched middle becoming even more stretched

And there is so much more of this to come. 🙁

anotherside · 28/05/2024 11:04

quintessentially166 · 28/05/2024 10:38

VAT is not going to effect parents who send kids to schools at the top end of private schools because let's face it if you can afford the top end fees an extra 20% is neither here or there and these schools are more likely to be able to absorb the cost anyway.

Parents that will be affected will be those that go to the smaller schools that cant absorb the costs and the parents are already making sacrifices in order to send their kid to a private school.

The state sector isnt going to be flooded with kids from the private sector, houses prices in grammar school areas are not going to suddenly increase (this has already happened) and just because a kid goes to private school does not mean they necessarily have the intelligence for grammar school anyway.

We live in a free country giving us choice and one of those choices is private education and some parents choose private as their state school options are less then favourable.

The government who ever that may be need to concentrate on funding the state sector properly, if the state sector had more decent schools then perhaps there wouldnt be as much animosity towards the private sector.

Most state schools are decent. But people have unrealistic expectations of schools in a country with significant areas of social deprivation, even within supposed okay or nice areas. For example, the bottom 20% of earners in Britain earn 20% less than their French neighbours. And that’s without taking into account France’s superior health service, superior childcare, cheaper housing costs. It always baffles me why people expect British schools to be an oasis of calm, disciplinary and academic excellence when huge swathes of the country itself is going to the shit.

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