Adding another perspective.
We had to move our DD (diagnosed ADHD and dyscalculia) from our local outstanding state to private in Yr9 because the school had absolutely no resources to support her. All their focus was on to best and worst performers - the well-behaved kids in the middle were entirely ignored until she was so overwhelmed by the work and the environment she was diagnosed with anxiety and sat at home refusing to leave her room. Two years earlier she'd been the definition of joyfulness. She was also one of five SEN kids in her year who moved to private for essentially the same reasons. I am grateful every day we could make this move for her - she has absolutely thrived in her new school with small classes, extra support, and opportunities to boost her self esteem outside of the classroom.
This year our younger DD didn't get a place at the same school due to catchment shrinking to 0.6miles due to affluent parents buying up houses near the good state when they would previously have paid for private. Younger DD now also going to private as allocated a school in special measures.
Here's the new perspective.
In order to pay for DD1's private fees, I gave up a job I loved as a clinician working in community adolescent mental health, for a much better paid role in pharmaceuticals because I needed to earn enough to pay the school fees. This year my DH will give up his civil service job in the prison sector for better pay as a consultant to pay for DD2's fees. None of this is what's best for society.
I know we're extraordinarily privileged to be able to buy good education for our girls, but I wish we'd been able to keep both girls at state, and both our jobs in the public sector which we care so deeply about. I don't blame Labour for the VAT rise - if it genuinely helps the state schools then I'm all in, but the debate is not as simple as vilifying rich people crying over having to cash their investments.