@Labraradabrador
"no child is more worthy of a good education than any other, and I don’t think any parent in private or state would assert that.
we do the best for our children and that means different things for different families. If your child is well housed, clothed and fed they have privilege. If they are well supported educationally in state they have privilege. If you are able to spend time with them and support extracurriculars they have privilege. We live in a wealthy country with no shortage of privilege if we choose to look at it from the perspective of those who have less. Conversely we can focus on anyone that has a bit more than us and feel hard done by."
On average every child would be better off if the were educated in a setting like a private school, the children of parents who can afford private education are not more delicate, deserving or otherwise in need of private education.
Of course privilege is a sliding scale but the point I'm making is that parents who send there children to private education in U.K. have already given their children the privilege of living in a wealth country, spend time with them, support their education. It's just their getting the benefit of a private education on top of these points.
Your post is very much everyone should be grateful for what they've got but your buying access to better education for your child that others won't have access to when they have the exact same need profile as yours and everyone else's children who go to private school. Your saying that state provision is not good enough for your children, you're not accepting what you have. Yet you expect others to accept it's fair your children and others at private school have more than the average child in the U.K. has?