I have also made sacrifices for my children and their education.
I gave up my employed role when my youngest was born and became self-employed. This was before WFH was a thing and i wanted flexibility to do pick ups, after school activities.
I worked really hard but no pension, no sick pay, no benefits.
We do not have nice cars or fancy holidays.
I was advised to become a ltd company by my accountant. At the time the tax burden was lower to take account of the fact that self-employed didnt get pension, rights, job security. The government actively encouraged it and said we were driving the economy.
Because of these sacrifices we couldn't afford private school but that was a choice we made.
When DS1 became ill there was no employer to support me.
When Covid hit there was no support for limited company directors. No furlough, no payments.
Now, corporation tax has gone up massively because businesses 'have to pay for the support they received' even though I didn't receive any. Mt pension is still pretty non-existent.
It's gutting and infuriating.
My point is, I made those choices and the fact that a u in government taxation policy means they have backfired financially somewhat is mine to deal with.
I'm not claiming the rest of the world is 'spiteful' or 'immoral' for not rushing to my aid. People on here will just say it was a 'luxury' for me to choose that option and I'll just have to suck it up and try harder.