"But you can’t compare it to State (where class sizes are 30) because these aren’t normal kids - they are motivated with engaged parents. Just being around kids like that will be beneficial for your child"
😬😬😬 Now that's a statement. So parents who can't afford £30k per child per year on education aren't engaged, and parents who put their kids in boarding school at 8 and throw money at the situation are engaged? I attended a private school, and worked at another one. There were whole bunch of very privileged kids with anger issues, drug problems, lack of motivation... Teen angst plus money brings a lot of trouble. Parents don't know the half of it. Yes, there are less "feral" kids than in state school, but this is such a blanket statement.
Apart from this, the teaching at private schools can be very hit and miss. We've had very bad teachers, some of whom had actually been preying on the students (what used to be called "having affairs with") just be quietly moved between schools rather than be fired and held accountable. Not to mention unqualified teachers being hired due to nepotism, neither of which you get in state schools. Many of these teachers are still teaching years, decades, later. In fact, I've just looked up one of the teachers from my old secondary school who was quite openly sleeping with a 16 year old student when I was there, and he's now working in a state school having gone through a few private schools previously. Obviously this isn't on his record. Had he been a state school teacher he would have been imprisoned.
ANYWAY I know this was never intended to be a thread about state vs private schools, I couldn't just let this kind of comment slide.
Sorry OP that your thread is being derailed! I think 16 is a better class size than 10 but I understand your worry if it keeps going up with no notice!