Thank you @Pinkheart321 for enlightening the rest of us on our failing to see the lack of perfection in local State schools and for reminding all of us to “check (y)our privilege”.
Just perhaps, however, our “realities” are a bit different than yours.
Some of us happen to work for the NHS and are school teachers. We also pay our taxes through which local state schools are funded. Hence we have a right to expect a standard of education for all our children that is higher than the basic “it’s FREE!!!!!!” criteria that you seem to adhere to when evaluating a school like COLPAI.
COLPAI is not a school set up to educate the poor as a form of charity. It is also not a fiefdom where children are required to be obedient and be grateful that they are receiving “free” lunches and a “free” education that teaches them to “do as they are told” through a combination of shaming and “shouty” (as described recently by several children) leadership in the school.
Did you know that the children are taught that COLPAI “is the BEST school in Islington for its well behaved kids”? Have you ever heard of a headteacher that reprimands parents of young KS1 children for being tardy or absent by trying to scare them with statistics about absences resulting in lower paid jobs in the future? During a COVID year?
That is COLPAI.
Just because you hold COLPAI in high esteem for your child (in your “humble opinion”), doesn’t mean other families have shared a similar experience to yours nor do they have misplaced expectations on what’s good pastoral care. They are free to express here their opinions and insights into the challenges within a school dynamic that clearly has its problems.
You don’t like what other parents are saying here about COLPAI? This thread isn’t for you. This thread is to help a parent who is trying to decide what school to choose for a young child. What right do you have to try to insult other parents and to keep them from sharing their experiences?
All your accusations of “personal grudges” and lecturing other parents on how they need to parent and educate their children, less they “will be terrible adults with mental health issues” are the very definition of “toxic”.
Shockingly, at the same time you somehow think it’s acceptable put down the children at another local school.
Shame on you.
Your post is the most negative one on this thread and hopefully not representative of the typical type of parent mentality that is most prevalent at COLPAI. Somehow you seem to be doing everything “right” as a parent by choosing COLPAI and other parents who don’t share your opinions about the school are being unrealistic and “vindictive”.
Clearly this thread has touched on a nerve for you and perhaps affected your lack of confidence as a parent? No one even has mentioned a specific child unless your child happens to be the deputy head(!)?
One thing you are right about is parents being free to choose other schools for their children. Likely that’s why there are spots across the school years at COLPAI. Just ask around.
By the way, 5pc staff turnover a year is about average at a state school. 10pc or more indicates there’s a problem. Do your own math and you’ll see how much staff turnover COLPAI has had over the past 2 years.