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'My son was expelled for telling the truth' - Sunday Times

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MimiDul · 23/06/2019 07:36

'School bullied my son for telling truth about drugs’

The only GCSE pupil honest enough to admit drug-taking during an investigation at a top private school was forced out earlier this year — while the 34 boys who stayed silent were allowed to remain.

Today, Julian Dodds, the father of the 16-year-old, has gone public to highlight what he says is gross injustice because of the widespread variation in how private schools handle drug-taking among pupils; he says the practice is at “epidemic levels” among teenagers. The case comes more than two decades after the same school, Whitgift, in Croydon, south London, was criticised for taking a similarly hardline approach, expelling 10 pupils for smoking cannabis.

Whitgift told the 16-year old he would have to leave in February, just a few months before he was due to take nine GCSEs. The teenager was one of 35 boys interrogated by teachers in the school for several hours after a tip-off by other pupils about an alleged drugs problem. Parents whose sons refused to take a drugs test were also called in and quizzed during what was called “Operation Swoop”.

The boys were interrogated in five different rooms and told that “things would go better for them if they wrote an admission statement of what substances they had ever taken”.

Dodds’s son said he had tried marijuana and “some pills”, though not on the school premises.

“My boy was the only one to tell the truth and for that he got kicked out of school,” said his father. “Why are schools allowed to bully kids in this way when drug use is widespread among teenagers, particularly at private schools? Some boys at the school have a bingo card on which they tick off all the drugs they have tried.

“The Whitgift boys get targeted by drug dealers on the train they travel to school on. This is the issue: how do you tackle drug use among teenagers when police have largely given up?”

The Dodds family were given a choice between withdrawing their son or attending a meeting with the headmaster, Chris Ramsey, at which they were warned that their son could be expelled. They chose to withdraw him.

The school, to which they had paid about £90,000 for five years’ tuition, said he could come back there to sit his exams if no other school place could be found for him. He revised at home with the help of private tutors, and returned to Whitgift to sit his exams.

Whitgift said: “After long consideration, a student was asked to leave the school four months ago after an investigation . . . pupils and parents are aware that the school cannot tolerate involvement with drugs and the safety of all our pupils is our primary concern. The presence of drugs [among] young people is a societal issue that can ruin lives.”

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mylifestory · 01/03/2020 09:52

I have just come across this thread. The school were only thinking of themselves and their reputation. By getting rid of one boy they can report that they have dealt with the problem in their statistics etc. Private schools only think of how anything affects them with little care for pupils welfare. it totally is bullying, something which they no doubt ppeae to rally against in their manifesto. Been there done that. it is it a nice place to be. Good luck to your no doubt lovely son.

FiddleOnTheRoof · 02/03/2020 12:02

Wasn’t aware of this but imagine all private schools have to deal with this sort of thing. Anyone who thinks their child’s school don’t is delusional.

montlieu · 03/03/2020 11:38

very poor pastoral care from a leading school !

considering the widespread use of drugs with teenagers throughout that particular school and others in London, it's clear it just suited the school to expel that particular boy.

Mugglingstrum · 03/03/2020 14:32

Pupil takes drugs. Pupil gets caught. School expels pupil.

Examining the pupils behaviour and the factors that lead him to this behaviour despite evidently having such a caring father would be more beneficial.

I have a son at Whitgift and think their pastoral care is fantastic. Those that don’t are invariably listening to gossip and/or have a bee in their bonnet regarding private schools.

Whitgift will offer your son a brilliant education. The crying shame is that this boy wasted the opportunity that many would bite you arm off for.

Portia51 · 10/03/2023 16:12

Just read your post on your son being excluded from Whitgift. So sorry.
My Dear GS has been expelled after less than 6mths for swearing and disruptive behaviour.
He's been diagnosed with Adhd and this has been disregarded by the school.
How Driconeane of their school. He's a very bright boy, and now is left feeling isolated and unworthy.
His parents are devastated, we all are.
This is a good boy a nice child, how could the school do this?
Has any one else had a problem with the over zealous discipline at Whitgift?

justasking111 · 10/03/2023 18:25

DS year had a problem with drugs. The school suspended the boys so they went home they were allowed back for GCSES then told no more chances.

Returned for Sixth form within a month six of them were expelled simultaneously when drugs were found. The wave of fear that went through the boys and possibly parents, it knocked them for six DS said. But it fixed the problem.

SDTGisAnEvilWolefGenius · 10/03/2023 18:27

Reallybadidea · 23/06/2019 08:44

The boy were told that “things would go better for them if they wrote an admission statement of what substances they had ever taken"

Then they expelled the boy who cooperated and the others were allowed to remain at the school. That's pretty outrageous, if that's an accurate account.

My thoughts precisely, @Reallybadidea.

Dancingdreamer · 10/03/2023 19:58

The sad thing about this story, is that it is teaching students never to tell the truth.

justasking111 · 10/03/2023 20:14

Dancingdreamer · 10/03/2023 19:58

The sad thing about this story, is that it is teaching students never to tell the truth.

Yep happened to my DS he told the truth the other three lied. He got a caution even though he was defending himself from the school bully. Bullies mother called the police into the school. Steep learning curve. We told him to lie after that.

Portia51 · 13/03/2023 19:27

My 11 year old grand son has bern excluded after only 6 months.
He's very bright and his schoolwork is exceptional.
He has ADS and the school knew this and we thought they had an SEN policy to cope with children with SEN needs. They don't. Whitgift have let him down terribly. Then to excluded him permanently. How draconian. Does any one else know of similar disciplines by this school?

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