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repeating year 6

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fimoing123 · 23/11/2018 17:39

My DS(10) is summer born, and I'd like him to redo year 6 at a new school. None of the local state schools are open to this, but 2 of the independents are.

DS has a BF. BF is lovely, but super-competitive and pretty much every conversation I hear between them contains some declaration of BF's superiority over DS, whether it be height, no. of cars his dad owns, whatever... This has been going on for years and I pull him up on it when I hear him but I think DS just ignores it as he's so used to it. In short, it's not a massively healthy relationship and I was thinking separate schools would be a blessing.

I know BF is going to one of the schools in Year 7 so visited the other hoping we'd love it but we don't. The school BF is going to just looks perfect for DS too. Now really stuck as to what to do . It's a small school so I'm sure they'd see a fair bit of each other so just not sure what to do.

Has anyone got any experience of repeating years and impact on friendships that they could impart!

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StuntNun · 24/11/2018 13:26

Kay it is a possibility which was why we needed agreement from both schools and the council school admissions before my DS2 could repeat a year. They really don't like children being educated out of year unless they have started Reception a year late or there are special needs.

KayM2 · 24/11/2018 15:39

StuntNun; Ah, I see. It also affects the exam statistics. But that is the school's problem, not yours.

Another thought, possibly caused by me not keeping up with the debate. Doing " Yr 6" again in the same school ( I assume a state school) might well include a certain amount of feeling he was " marking time". A change of school at end of Yr 6 to do another Yr 6 in a different school would avoid that feeling of " done this already", one supposes .

Sorry if that has been covered before.

TheCrowFromBelow · 24/11/2018 17:09

What does your DS think? At this age his input is important.
Is he happy to stay down a year?

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