Sorry i haven't had time to read the whole thread - only joined MN a week ago & just found this...but, i would think if dyslexia is not genetic, then why has my dh, his dad, his uncles, aunts and Nana all showed 'symptoms' of the same type of dyslexia? Oh, and my 9 year old twins both show many signs of it too. As somebody said tho - we can't find out cos we can't afford testing .
Dh was only diagnosed at age 22, after thoroughly failing in the education system. He still has no education as he is only encouraged to improve his english and maths skills, which seems to be nearly impossible even with specialist teaching! However he did get his iq tested and was 129 on just the problem-solving part. Apparently they didn't bother with the language part