Havent been on MN for a few days and am & at the way this thread has gone.
Firstly, please let me apologise. The thread was not meant to slate or put down teachers in any way, and I am truely sorry if it was taken that way. I hold teachers in high regard - its a job I certainly would not have the strength of character to do.
Secondly, when I made the OP, it was after my conversation with 'a teacher friend' who actually informed me (so I know now, incorrectly) that INSET days were not taken out of teachers' holiday time. When I made the OP it was after listening to conversations of parents outside the school gates complaining that the children had just had half term and now in their first week back were having more time off for INSET days.
So please accept my sincere apologies if I have offended anyone.... that really was not my intent.
HOWEVER, on reading this thread, it has come to light that teachers do seem to feel hard done by. My DH works 90+ hours a week (last week one day he left for work at 4 am in the morning and did not get home until 3 am the following morning). He is rarely home before 10 pm (often between 12 and 2 am) and leaves for work between 6 am and 8 am in the mornings. He does not get paid for any overtime and gets 4 weeks holiday a year. That's DH's choice. He loves his job and wouldnt do it if he didnt.
In comparison, a friend of ours who is a Deputy Head gets paid the same as DH, is home every night on time to bath and put his children to bed and of course gets all those lovely holidays - and yes he does go in 2/3 days before the kids go back to prepare.
I suppose the point I am trying to make is that, although teachers do have a difficult job, they also do get a HUGE bonus too (the holidays).
I would like to thank blackandwhitecat in particular for her posts, as I think she is particular can see where I am coming from.
Anyway, sorry, rambling now..... again, this thread was not started to cause offence. I had absolutely no idea it was a topic for such a heated debate. I am a regular MN poster and am that I may have offended people that I consider my 'cyber friends'.