My belief had always been very similar to Miranda2's - a belief in the role of society and our responsibilites within it - but also the richness that that can also endow. And yes, maybe an "arrogant" belief that I have a duty as an articulate middle class parent (and proud of it), to bring my "skills" to the local school and to kick up a stink if it is not up to scratch. I was brought up on good Socialist principles of equality of opportunity in health and education - my dad is/was a doctor, my mum a teacher, both only ever prepared to "practice" in the state sector.
HOEWEVER: Ds is 3 and a half and it pains me (politically) to say that we are having to consider private schooling. The problem is that round where we are there is a very large Indian/Pakistani community. That in itself is not a problem for me - what IS the issue is that NINETY EIGHT PER CENT of the kids starting at my catchment primary school have "English as an Additional Language" - and the vast majority of them will start at primary school not speaking a word of English. One of its recommendations is that the school needs to improve on provison for kids who are capable of attaining more - my suspicion is that that two per cent for whom English is their first language, would be included in that category.
I don't want my son treading water for those previous first few months in school. He's a bright kid and would get bored - and might start not to like school.
There are three primary schools close by and we have heard that the headmistress at one of them (unfortunately the furthest away one) is brilliant (in fact she has an MBE for services to education), so we want to find out HOW the schools deal with those kids who DON'T need the extra attention to bring them on in English.
But it may be that we are reassured once we visit the schools - and part of me would LIKE for him to have the opportunity to be exposed to other cultures and languages - as long as it doesn't compromise the rest of his education. Even the "good" school would have an extremely high ethnic population - so that in itself is not an issue for me. I've now seen its "prospectus" and it talks about how they explore the various religions and ceremonies - which I think is great, even from my perspective as an atheist, as I think he needs to understand the society within which he lives, and religion, for better or worse, is an important part of our society and the world we live in. That to me is one of the arguments in favour of state education.
I am however, also prepared to be totally pragmatically hypocritical and move to an area which does have a good state system - following the example of my parents, who made damn sure to live in an area of excellent state provision. According to my dad though, despite this, he was still told by his (medical) colleagues that he was doing irrepareable damage to his children's education by sending us (over 30 years ago!) to the local schools. Bearsden Primary, for goodness sake (for those of you who know Glasgow)!! It still amuses my dad that my year at Bearsden Academy got the best results in Strathclyde - 5 or 6 of us got 6 "As" for our Highers (Sottish sort of equivelent to A levels, but borader and done a year earlier)! Despite the name, it was a comprehensive and we DID mix, certainly in the early years. We were streamed/setted for certain subjects from 2nd year - and we were always pushed to achieve.
Having said that, I would argue that my Mum's "old" school was a "better" school, as it catered for ALL the kids. She tought in Clydebank (Marti Pellow apparently once mentioned her as his "favourite teacher) At my school, if you weren't clever/academic, they didn't really put much effort in to you.
That's what schooling SHOULD be about, making sure that ALL kids fulfill their potential to the fullest - regardless of ability to pay.
Utopian perhaps - and difficult to follow through the principle when you see that your own child MIGHT be damaged by holding to those principles.
The sad thing is, we'll probably end up putting ds's name down for the local private school, in case we don't manage to get him into the preferred school. Under the Scottish (or Glasgow) system, you still have to register your child at the catchemnt primary, the January before the August they start, and then put in a placing request for the primary you REALLY want - and why. I won't even be able to put down the "real" reason (98% English as an additianl language) and will need to come up with some reason like "he would benefit from the (much) smaller school". I'll then find out my March or so if his placement request has been accepted. All of this is my agony later this year, when he will have to go through "selection" for the private school (as a back up) and for early next year when we have to register him and make the placement request. As far as we can make out, the school itself as no say in which placement requests it accepts - it's all done by the Education Authority - so we will be in the lap of the gods.