Sorry dinosaur - I guess that did sem hypocritical. I will rephrase.
I don't make individual judgements about people I mean and would never dream of personally having a dig at anyone on here or in RL. I haven't had chance to read everything on herr so not sure if I was actually singly anyone out. I apoligise to that person if I did; I am not on MN to insult or offend. Anyone who knows me will know that.
However, I just don't believe in lying about important stuff, full stop - not just about schools and education. That's all I meant - not having a dig at anyone. If that makes me unjustifiably judgemental then maybe I am. But I am just generally a honest person and even for the best for my child, couldn't do it myself.