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Schools should 'provide sleepovers' to help parents with cost of childcare

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Itchyandscratchy · 16/07/2013 19:28

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exoticfruits · 16/07/2013 22:04

Of course schools are fit for purpose. They are to suit the child. They are nothing whatever to do with childcare- parents need to sort out their childcare around it.
I agree with ravenAK and I would do it for £3.50 perhour per child.

FannyMcNally · 16/07/2013 22:05

But don't people think about what will happen when their children start school? It seems to come as a shock that the school day is basically 9 - 3. Why?

MrButtercat · 16/07/2013 22:05

Erm the point of school isn't to fit into the parent's day.

School is there to educate,it has nothing to do with the needs of parents- nothing!

scottishmummy · 16/07/2013 22:07

Nuggets and chips?good grief where do your kids go to school
A lot of you are just chucking about hand wringing scenarios and what ifs to suit pov
If its so abhorrent,don't use extended day you'll not be compelled.and those who want to have option to do so

MadBannersAndCopPorn · 16/07/2013 22:07

^ what she said

MadBannersAndCopPorn · 16/07/2013 22:08

Not you scottish, sorry x post

MrButtercat · 16/07/2013 22:08

I know Fanny,don't people realise prior to ttc that at some point they will have a bundle they will have to care for and if that isn't possible they will need to sort out and pay for childcare?

Not sure why it has suddenly become the responsibility of schools.The sense of entitlement re childcare is starting to get a tad ott.

scottishmummy · 16/07/2013 22:10

School day isn't fit for purpose it's a challenge for working parents,need review
The premises are owned by local authority,if they want to extend day on site they can
The education day is 9-3 this should be extended to include afterschool provision if parents require it

exoticfruits · 16/07/2013 22:13

It is very weird that people send their child to school and expect it to have normal office hours- they are schools.
If you can't organise childcare around it then you need a boarding school and even then you have allow for very long school holidays.
No one is going to do it without a lot of extra pay- I would say it is unaffordable.

MrButtercat · 16/07/2013 22:14

Err the school day is fit for purpose ie it's a period of time which educates children at an optimum level.

Your purpose is neither here nor there.Get a childminder or nanny if you don't have another parent or family member to cover your overnight meetings.Hmm

scottishmummy · 16/07/2013 22:14

Having booked nursery at 12wk pg I was well aware of need to plan.i did
I see no reason Local authority cannot maximise its resources and use school as base
It's use of premises,not extended teaching contact time

NoComet · 16/07/2013 22:14

Sorry I had children with the intention of actually seeing them and bringing them up, not parking them in indifferent before, after and holiday child care.

And it will be indifferent, No way can it be an enriching experince to spend that long in the same buildings with the same peer group, day in day out all year, especially with it been done as cheaply as possible.

Children need down time in their own space, they need time for interesting extracurricular activities, they need to spend time away from the gossip and pressures of their peers and chose friends with shared interests not shared postcodes.

Children even need time to get bored.

exoticfruits · 16/07/2013 22:14

Are you actually going to pay £42 a night Scottishmummy?

Tasmania · 16/07/2013 22:15

BUT, the dc know I am home for them after school. I can therefore take them to swimming / hockey training / friend's houses / emergency shopping trip for new school trousers etc etc. I can be there for them.

A lot parents actually do not do that despite not working full time! There are plenty around where dc just sits at home watching TV, and in that case a boarding school-like environment would be MUCH, MUCH better than being with a moody mother who does not want to do anything...

IwishIwasmoreorganised · 16/07/2013 22:15

The school day is perfectly long enough for our 2 ds's - it's quite fit for their purpose which is to be educated.

It doesn't appear to fit in with your working arrangements scottishmummy and that it something quite different to the needs of the children that the state is educating.

BehindLockNumberNine · 16/07/2013 22:15

The school day IS fit for purpose - it educates the pupils for the duration of their time there.
After school care is NOTHING to do with school or the school day and it is a sad day the two are rolled into one...

exoticfruits · 16/07/2013 22:15

With meals extra?

MrButtercat · 16/07/2013 22:15

A nanny would be waaaay cheaper if you had several children and they'd be tucked up in their own beds on a school night.

Arisbottle · 16/07/2013 22:15

There could be a core day devoted to education which we all use and then extended time at the start and end of the day which is optional and acts as child care.

scottishmummy · 16/07/2013 22:16

What's the significance of overnight meeting?has someone said they need them
I don't have a work pattern that include overnight meeting
Are you making things up to suit yourself?

exoticfruits · 16/07/2013 22:17

If you want a boarding school - like environment you will have to pay boarding school- like fees.

MrButtercat · 16/07/2013 22:17

Tas speak for yourself most sahp I know are nothing like that.

scottishmummy · 16/07/2013 22:18

Who are you addressing exotic?

MrButtercat · 16/07/2013 22:18

Then why do your kids need to sleep at school?

NoComet · 16/07/2013 22:18

Thinking about it, spending 8 hrs a day 300+ days a year with the same group of people, doing not a lot, is perfect preparation for working in a office Grin

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