It's sad that people still see working as a sin, something to be ashamed of, something terrible that makes one a lesser parent.
Surely it is better than living on benefits, with no prospect for oneself or one's children, surely single parent families who struggle need help to get back into work by provision of adequate and cheap, reliable childcare, surely this is a real issue which as a society we cannot keep shying away from.
Sure I agree it would be great if we all could work 20 hours a week from home, and I am one of the uber lucky ones who does work from home, BUT I recognise it isn't all ABOUT ME it is about the wider society and the reality people are living right now.
As for overnight care, the rich have been using it unashamedly and unjudged for hundreds of years, it only seem to become a problem when it is offered more widely, if you don't like it don't use it, I don't see why you would have a problem in it being offered and helping others who have a genuine need.