Totallybullshit I made it quite plain down thread if you look, that I don't think tutoring does have to be a negative experience. Obviously if it is done to remedy a weakness, or cultivate a talent, in a way that is inspiring, caring and effective, then it can benefit a child academically and psychologically. I grew up with a heavily dyslexic brother, when most schools did not acknowledge a diagnosis, let alone provide support. I still remember the name , Mr Houghton, of his patent and caring tutor, and the way he worked with the then very sparse tools at his disposal to help him. I see no problem with parents, or a tutor with the right skills and knowledge, if the parents don't want to or can't for whatever reason, helping to prepare a child for exams providing it is a positive experience, and kept within reasonable and humane limits, and provided it is consistent with what is actually required.
However all the features I have highlighted are symptoms of an unregulated tutoring industry that around here exploits parents anxiety and as a result children are subjected to miserable and negative educational experiences. Mostly it seems to involve being crammed around a kitchen table with several others, doing endless practise papers for a year or two, most parents I know say they know it was miserable and they would have hated it. At worst it was what was described by the poster below. (my post 22.55 last night) If you think that was defensible then no, you won't win with me. All this is in response to a supposedly untutorable test?
RussiansonTheSpree You presumably have an Ed Psych report, do you not submit that along with your application to explain any underperformance in any tests which might disadvantage Dyspraxics? In some ways I think VR / NVR tests more than level the playing field for Dyslexics, my family has a long history of swanning into Grammar Schools only to mystify and frustrate the teachers ever after (before Dyslexia was remotely understood)