Major school problem. She can't do school, I can't do HE. Don't appear to be any other options.

[AtYourCervix]

DD is utterly miserable in school. Always has been. I see her being miserable for another 3 years then finishing with nothing learned and no exams at all.

I cannot HE. I do not have the experience, brain, time not inclination to teach her at home. We would end up killing each other.

I am at the absolute end of my very long teather. I have come to hate the school as much as she does.

We live in a small rural town with only one secondary school - other nearest schools are similar size/ethos and 20 miles away so impossible to get her to.

I don't earn enough to even consider independent.

What do I do?

Thanks you lot (not been back for hours - been at work). much appreciated.

lots to think about.

she will self-learn if she is at home. can I pm you?

yup.

Is she disciplined enough to do something like InterHigh School (an online secondary school)? It may be a good fit for you.