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row in parking lot with head teacher! (longish)

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sansouci · 01/10/2005 18:33

There is next to no parking by dd's school. Everyone complains but for the moment, nothing has actually been done about it, except for the police coming round & taking photos of pick-up & drop-off times. The yummy-mummies make it even worse with SUVs but anyway.

Yesterday when I went to pick up dd from school, I had to double park. I left my warning lights flashing to show that I was coming back soon. Unfortunately, dd didn't come to the car easily & then I got chatting with another mummy, as you do, forgetting completely about my precarious parking place.

On returning to the car, a group of angry women were clustered in front of the school & of course I apologised profusely to the one or two I had blocked.

One woman made a rather bitchy comment as I was charging by & when I saw her heading for her car a few minutes later, I asked her what she felt could be done about the parking. It's not my problem, she replied shortly. We got into an argument, which escalated, as things do on a Friday afternoon. She said, I'm a teacher at this school! to which I retorted, My daughter is a student at this school & if you're part of the staff, you should care about the parking problem! I wasn't rude, but I was very angry with her & she was angry with me.

I eventually roared off, furious and shaking, cursing the woman aloud. Do you know that silly woman? I asked DD. Yes, she said, she's the head teacher. Oh SH*T, I thought, Now I've done it.

How can I face her again? She'll be dd's teacher one day. I think I was right to be cross but I was at fault & certainly on the defensive. What do you think I can do?

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SenoraBruja · 03/10/2005 20:41

I answer to any combination of those.

aloha · 03/10/2005 20:46

Anyone who thinks it is inconsiderate to park over a driveway...I assume you never park outside anyone's house? if you do, why is the former is 'bad' (aside from questions about legality), why is the latter OK?

serahscarer · 03/10/2005 20:47

Do you prefer SASP or SASB then?

serahscarer · 03/10/2005 20:50

Its an access issue is all Aloha - although I do have sympathy with people in London as it must be a nightmare.

There is no "right" to park outside your own house - it is Highway Land and as such, unless subject to a Traffic Regulation Order, anyone can legally park there. In front of someones drive, it is causing an obstruction to someones right to access private land (as granted in the excerpt you quoted)

serahscarer · 03/10/2005 20:50

Its an access issue is all Aloha - although I do have sympathy with people in London as it must be a nightmare.

There is no "right" to park outside your own house - it is Highway Land and as such, unless subject to a Traffic Regulation Order, anyone can legally park there. In front of someones drive, it is causing an obstruction to someones right to access private land (as granted in the excerpt you quoted)

SenoraBruja · 03/10/2005 20:52

so what is the legal position with regards to painting over those double yellow lines people paint outside their houses? (haven't seen any for a while but i really want to)

serahscarer · 03/10/2005 20:54

You could be arrested if you were caught painting on the highway without due authority SB. However, you can certainly park on them without any recourse.

aloha · 03/10/2005 20:54

yes, but I'm interested in why people think it is 'wrong' or 'inconsiderate' to park over a dropped kerb, but OK to park outside someone's house, where you cause exactly the same problem of reduced access to the house etc.

Caligula · 03/10/2005 20:55

pmsl at how dull this thread's got!

hunkerpumpkin · 03/10/2005 20:56

How do you reduce access to a house by parking in front of it if there's no dropped kerb? Am really not being argumentative, just can't imagine the kind of house you mean (unless one where the front door opens directly onto an inch-thick piece of pavement, then the road).

aloha · 03/10/2005 20:56

I'm trying to be controversial Caligula!

LadyCodofCodford · 03/10/2005 20:56
Angry
Caligula · 03/10/2005 20:57

But what kind of windows would this house have?

serahscarer · 03/10/2005 20:57

I'm sorry.....

parp.

There, got that one out of my system

Sh*te.... just realised, my two hooter topics are parking and statistic quoting. The two most boring subjects going. Let me win Bore Of The Year. Me! ME!!

(Although I suppose according to the true hooter, parking isn't really a hooter topic for me)

happymerryberries · 03/10/2005 20:57

But if you park in fron of an dropped curb you are atopping people getting to park on their own land. If you park in fron of someones house you are parking on an open road, which is not owned by the people in eth house. Or am I missing something here?

LadyCodofCodford · 03/10/2005 20:58

yes i parpeth
erah lol at you being a parper

aloha · 03/10/2005 20:59

hunkerpumpkin, well, the only point of the dropped kerb is to make sure you are always parked next to your house, yes? So all you are doing by parking across their damned dropped kerb is making them look for a parking space a bit further away like anyone else.
If you park outside my house you make sure I can't park next to my house and I have to look for a parking space a bit further away. It's just the same and I am interested why some people think the former is 'bad' and the latter perfectly OK.

happymerryberries · 03/10/2005 20:59

Anyway I'm still amazed at anyone expecting their child's teacher to care about their parking probelms and scuttles off......

magicfarawaytree · 03/10/2005 20:59

what a thread ! cant believe people are arguing about the right to obstruct someones home. At teh minimum, I would personally take a key to any car that obstructed me from accessing my property. I dont own the street but I do own the house and pay council tax, road tax etc. I use my garage everyday having narrowly escaped attackers on two previous occasions when I was walking at night not even that late ( 9pm and 1030pm on each respective occaision.

magicfarawaytree · 03/10/2005 21:01

just to clarify - I mean the kerb that have been dropped to allow access to off road parking ie garages etc.

aloha · 03/10/2005 21:01

Well that's certainly criminal and a LOT more than inconsiderate. How nasty.
I presume you have never parked or left your car outside someone's house at night then? After all, they may also be returning late at night and will have to face marauders too.

serahscarer · 03/10/2005 21:01

Its merely down to Highway Land Aloha - and to be honest, I thought you were joking when you first posted about nursery being a minute away and always being a space... but I can see the annoyance about never being able to park outside your own house - people just have to accept that there is no right to - ever.

Blimey... lurkers everywhere suddenly. Dull, Caligula? I suspect you haven't seen anything yet!

aloha · 03/10/2005 21:02

And I own my house and pay all the same taxes!

Caligula · 03/10/2005 21:02

What's the effect of having your car keyed? Does it just make the paint look crap, or does it actually cause any damage?

Caligula · 03/10/2005 21:03

Serah - the keying bit will hot the thread up. Just as Wife Swap is beginning as well! Dilemmas, dilemmas!

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