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row in parking lot with head teacher! (longish)

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sansouci · 01/10/2005 18:33

There is next to no parking by dd's school. Everyone complains but for the moment, nothing has actually been done about it, except for the police coming round & taking photos of pick-up & drop-off times. The yummy-mummies make it even worse with SUVs but anyway.

Yesterday when I went to pick up dd from school, I had to double park. I left my warning lights flashing to show that I was coming back soon. Unfortunately, dd didn't come to the car easily & then I got chatting with another mummy, as you do, forgetting completely about my precarious parking place.

On returning to the car, a group of angry women were clustered in front of the school & of course I apologised profusely to the one or two I had blocked.

One woman made a rather bitchy comment as I was charging by & when I saw her heading for her car a few minutes later, I asked her what she felt could be done about the parking. It's not my problem, she replied shortly. We got into an argument, which escalated, as things do on a Friday afternoon. She said, I'm a teacher at this school! to which I retorted, My daughter is a student at this school & if you're part of the staff, you should care about the parking problem! I wasn't rude, but I was very angry with her & she was angry with me.

I eventually roared off, furious and shaking, cursing the woman aloud. Do you know that silly woman? I asked DD. Yes, she said, she's the head teacher. Oh SH*T, I thought, Now I've done it.

How can I face her again? She'll be dd's teacher one day. I think I was right to be cross but I was at fault & certainly on the defensive. What do you think I can do?

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happymerryberries · 03/10/2005 19:45

God, I'm amazed at the things that people know about in MN. Reading this site is a real education!

Cam · 03/10/2005 19:45

ah serah you beat me to it

Roobie · 03/10/2005 19:49

So just to be clear...it is only illegal to park next to a drop kerb if the area is a DSEA but there are still exceptions - loading/unloading, permission of homeowner, emergency services, utility works etc.
I wonder how we are supposed to know whether an area is a DSEA then?

ks · 03/10/2005 19:53

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Roobie · 03/10/2005 19:56

I guess a parking attendant wouldn't issue a ticket to a car parked next to a dropped kerb on their own initiative then. It would be down to the homeowner to complain.

serahscarer · 03/10/2005 19:57

My understanding of it Roobie, is that unless you are spotted pulling up by a police officer, and assuming they can be arsed with the paperwork, it is just rude to park next to one. Cases of police officers actually attending cases of obstruction and then doing something about it are quite rare!

I guess you will soon find out if you are within a DSEA when you get a ticket - not sure what the signing could possibly look like if it is required, but it would only be on the Gateway "Controlled Area" signs.

See. Easy

SenoraBruja · 03/10/2005 19:57

surely in "terrace house", "terrace" is an adjectival noun (as in "newspaper headline") - you can have a terrace on its own, so why not a terrace house? or a terrace cat for that matter.

A drop kerb should be the bit that's steep though - the bit that has a drop.

serahscarer · 03/10/2005 20:00

Now that would be a sensible idea Roobie!

serahscarer · 03/10/2005 20:03

Nah... a dropped kerb refers to the ones that are dropped. The others are transition kerbs (that take you from high to low). Anyroadup, you lot going on about dropped kerbs - its vehicular accesses we are talking about here (25mm high and therefore not suitable for pedestrian access). Dropped kerbs are either flush or specified at 6mm.

Go on. Name your subject. I can bore for England.

ks · 03/10/2005 20:07

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SenoraBruja · 03/10/2005 20:09

but it's different because there's no such thing as a detach.

you can have a town house, a village house, and a terrace house.

ks · 03/10/2005 20:10

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SenoraBruja · 03/10/2005 20:12

serah: methods and values in social sciences from a historical perpective.

(I did that at university. I still have the scars from sticking all those pins in my eyes)

SenoraBruja · 03/10/2005 20:13

yes it's me! it's my halloween name. I might change it back as it's too smartypants and nobody recognises me.

a terrace is a row of houses. a terrace house is a house in a terrace.

(I don't know any of this for sure btw. I'm just competing with serah for bore of the year).

edam · 03/10/2005 20:16

I say 'terraced house' rather than 'terrace house' - strike me down for a grammar pedant but had never occurred to me that anyone wouldn't. You can have a terrace of terraced houses, of course. Am boring myself now...

We once got a ticket for parking across our own drive - we'd let visitors park in our space and parked across the end!

serahscarer · 03/10/2005 20:23

methods and values in social sciences from a historical perpective... let me think. I lost the will to live Googling it so I understand the pin marks

Think I still win Bore of The Year. What a Mumsnet topic that would turn out to be... "and Bore of the Year Award goes to......" Could get quite prestigious I'd imagine

ks · 03/10/2005 20:23

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ks · 03/10/2005 20:24

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SherlockLGJ · 03/10/2005 20:25

ROFL

Only on MN, could it start off as one topic and go off on a total tangerine.

serahscarer · 03/10/2005 20:25

Actually, I was in awe at the 346 messages LGJ. Thought it must be about Stephone....

happymerryberries · 03/10/2005 20:26

But is that a terraced tangerine or a terrace tangerine? We need to know!

SenoraBruja · 03/10/2005 20:28

well, terrace v terraced has never come up when i've been teaching. Probably just as well.

dropped kerbs in Spain are usually at least 5cm above the road if anyone's interested. And double parking is compulsory.

Janh · 03/10/2005 20:35

She's not SA, she's SP, KS!

tsk.

Janh · 03/10/2005 20:36

Well SB now but, y'know...

ggglimpopo · 03/10/2005 20:36

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