I have struggled with weight and bulimia most of my life.
I have had counselling and a lot of it is routed in my mums issues with weight.
She spent most of my childhood talking about weight - her weight, my weight, other peoples weight. The highest compliment she can give someone is they are ‘nice and slim’.
I am not.
Every time I see her she talks constantly about diets and weight. I really struggle with this. I change the subject each and every time but she doesn’t get the hint.
I have put on a lot of weight over the last two years. She is coming to stay with me for a week and I know I will spend a lot of the time fighting back tears of rage.
A confrontation at Christmas seems wrong - and she will just say I am over sensitive.
Anyone else dealt with this and any suggestions?
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Mellowyellow222 · 23/12/2021 20:07
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