Hi folks, we have been trying to start our family for two years and in this time have had 4 miscarriages. As part of the investigations into this we found out that I am a carrier for a genetic disease which has a one in four chance of being passed on. We also found out that I have PCOS, hypothyroidism and an immune reaction to pregnancy. I am now being treated for these but have not fallen pregnant again yet.
In a dream world I would use IVF and PGT to have a baby of our own but unfortunately the costs of this are prohibitive, especially with our miscarriage history. Access fertility seemed like a good option to support financially but they don't cover PGT as part of this. They do seem to cover use of donor eggs though which has now led me to considering this.
I am really looking to hear others experiences of going down the egg donor route... particularly if you were in a similar situation!
Thanks for reading!
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thehurtingheart · 29/08/2023 08:24
thehurtingheart · 29/08/2023 17:59
@Belle26 thanks so much for your response! Tentative Congratulations on your current pregnancy!
How did you settle on Spain? How often did you have to physically go over there?
Sushisnacks · 29/09/2023 13:22
Hello
I have to explore double donor, but really want to be able to see/select the egg donor myself and see a photo. Its important to me that the donor are non anonymous.
Does anyone know of a clinic in any country (minus Ukraine/Russia because of the war) where you could select a donor yourself.
I looked at Lister Fertility in London and they select a donor for you based off your preferences. e.g blonde hair, blues eyes etc. I find this really weird.
Spain / Czech Rep and most other countries egg donation is anonymous.
We can select a sperm donor and see photos but is it possible with egg?
Any help welcome
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Britinme · 30/11/2023 22:24
My DD and her DH both had fertility issues and ended up having assisted conception. Two failed attempts with their own genetic material and one failed donor embryo that MC at 8 weeks led to donor egg and donor sperm for their fourth attempt. This produced six good embryos. The first produced a beautiful daughter and the defrosting of another two years later produced her beautiful sister. My granddaughters are now 7 and 4, totally delightful, and I love them exactly the same as my genetic grandchildren.
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