As my username suggests we are splitting amicably. We are both sad and it's not what we ever wanted but a split is what is best for us both. Kids have left home already so there's no issue there etc. We have been quite insistent to friends that we have no beef and there are no sides to be taken. Despite this we are finding that people are taking sides regardless and we are both finding this hurtful at a time when we both already feel quite delicate.
STBXH loves parties. He loves going to them and loves hosting them. I quite like them too.
He is going to be moving out soon and he has suggested that we have a party - like a kind of moving on party which we both host in our shared home. He wants to demonstrate that we are still friends, really good friends and that this will help people to not feel uncomfortable about being around us at all.
Is this a good idea or a bad idea. I can't really tell. How would you feel if you were invited to something like this?