Hey everyone,
This week I found out that my partner of ten years and the farther of my children was having a long term affair. I confronted him and he has admitted it, he said that he had ended it and he wants me back. I have since found out that he hasn't ended it with her and they are still in a relationship. I have politely asked him to leave as I'm trying to be mature about it for the sake of the children but he is refusing to leave the house. Now we both own the property so I am aware that I cant make him leave unless he has been violent towards me or the children. Is there any other way to get him to leave, even if its temporary. I just need breathing space for the sake of my mental health. I don't want him back so I also need to sort out my finances. If I am living in the property with the kids and he pays half of the mortgage would I be able to claim universal credits? My childcare bills are over £1000 a month and there is no way I can do this without some help. Any advice would be welcome. Thank you in advance!