My husband and I are separating - been married 23 years. He is fizzing mad that I am due half of his pension and has been stalling providing the figures to my lawyer. I was a full time mum for a good part of the marriage.
Today, much to my disgust, the pension figure arrived at my lawyers. He has declared 2 years pension from 2018 until 2020 - value `18k. His pension scheme changed from a defined benefits to a defined contribution scheme in 2018 - he is trying to pull a fast one here! He has not declared the value of the pension from 1997 (marriage year) until Aug 2020 (separation date). I am absolutely livid. His pension scheme was excellent and I am sure will be worth a lot of money.
Any advice - my lawyer is going to pursue but I feel it won't be easy getting this information from him.
I know he has to declare all pension figures so he is being really immature acting this way.
He has made it crystal clear that he is bitter about me getting half of his pension - btw he is due half of mine worth 120k !
Thoughts ladies - just need to vent!
We are selling the family home - but I want the split etc agreed in writing before we do so and this is only holding things up.